I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and i still think about my ex, and i was only with him for like, 3-4-or5 months... Do the feeling ever go away?
2006-07-27 07:30:17 · 24 answers · asked by Kay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No because if you really truly loved and cared for that person once and then suddenly lose him or her, then even if that person was horrible to you, you will probably usually always love that person.
2006-07-27 07:39:48 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica E 1 · 9⤊ 3⤋
The feelings go away if you let them. Why are you still clinging to them? How would you feel if your boyfriend was still carrying a torch for someone else?
Your ex is your ex for a reason. Close that chapter of your life and put it behind you. What good to dwell on something that is over, when you've got something else right in front of you? That doesn't mean you can't have fond memories, just don't dwell on them or wish you were back together or fantasize about that occuring.
Your current boyfriend deserves to be the only guy romantically in your life...just as you should be the only girl romantically in his.
2006-07-27 07:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never goes away completely but in time you will think about the ex not as often.
I will have "triggers" and think of an ex from ten years ago. After the breakup yes I was very heartbroken altough I've had several boyfriends after him. Don't dwell, it's over, you have a new guy so concentrate on him...
2006-07-27 07:34:26 · answer #3 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been with this guy for that long and still feel for your ex, there's summin wrong with the picture. It's not fair to your b/f to make him think he's the one, when u are holding on to a lost love. Either get over the ex, or let the b/f go and find someone who will give him all their heart!
2006-07-27 07:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by dazed.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. The feelings will fade after awhile but it just depends on how intensely you had loved this person. Try to be more engage in the life of the person you are with. Avoid familiar places that you use to hang out with the previous person. Just try to do things that will not remind you so much of him. And you might be wondering why other individuals get by so quickly. Don't sweat it. Individuals are different and therefore approach things differently. Finally, the feelings will fade but you will never forget the person unless you get amnesia.
2006-07-27 07:40:33 · answer #5 · answered by joebaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm i could say in the event that they did you incorrect in a foul way definite it is going away and while it does you ask your self why you ever waited see you later to kick them out of your heart. on the different hand no count if that's somebody you probably did no longer go away the dating with undesirable words nor had the form of closure you mandatory, no they do no longer go away your heart. you won't think of roughly them for years and then sooner or later growth, yet returned you think of roughly them and sweetness what could have been in a daydream...
2016-11-03 03:13:08 · answer #6 · answered by filonuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u said a year and a half, I'm confused, is it a year and a half or 3,4,5, months? Usually, yes, give it TIME. Most don't. But they don't go away 100% I don't think. Feelings* First love? Otherwise, it's not healthy. I think it's an absence thing, an ex thing.
2006-07-27 07:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might still be in love with him. A year is a long time to still carry feelings for an ex you were with for a brief period of time. Check your feelings girl
2006-07-27 07:33:17 · answer #8 · answered by Rasi E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not if you like him like that then it's going to be hard but if you didn't feel him b-4 then u wouldn't b thinking about him. me n my men are in a on n off relationship for 4 years now n we always come back to each other. if we didn't love each other then we wouldn't do it.
2006-07-27 07:37:16 · answer #9 · answered by gisselldalatina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you aren't over him yet..you have a thing for him don't ya?? I lost all feeling of the guys I dated cause I realized they were total losers and i could do much better
2006-07-27 07:35:38 · answer #10 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they should have gon away by now. it sounds like you never fully got closure from the end of that relationship. YOu could try therapy to get to the bottom of it. Your current BF deserves at least that from you.
2006-07-27 07:34:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋