How would it make you feel if the one you're with , constantly talks the sexual activities they had with?

Question

their ex.

Answer 1

It's tacky, rude, and thoughtless to talk about sex with past partners (except in the most general terms) when you are with someone...and to go on and on about it shows a lack of respect...

Talk to your partner about it..let them know how you feel...if the behavior doesn't change, move on...that person is either not satisfied with you, or still hung up in some way on their ex...

Answer 2

Ask your partner why he needs to talk about his sexual activities with his exs. Some couples are just really open to talk about their past sexual life but both partners must be comfortable with that and it also depends WHY you need to talk about it. As for me, I've been with a guy who talked a lot about his past sexual activities but the way he talked about it made me feel like s h i t so I told him to go see his exs if it was so fun with them. And I started doing the same too and he realized that made him feel bad too hearing my past sex stories so he finally stopped and I ended up learning that he was doing that to impress me cuz he had a low self-confidence and wanted to show me that he had a lot of experience in sex. And I now even suspect him of having exagerated in his stories. So anyway, you should really ask him why he does that and tell him it hurts you.

Answer 3

If you're confident with yourself then you really won't care what is said about an ex as far sex is concerned. Let them talk about an ex all they want. You're in the "now" and should view the relationship from that angle.

Answer 4

That sounds like a sign that your partner wants you to try new things and if it is constantly brought up, you obviously aren't listening. You need to ask your partner if their is something that you should change in order for both of you to be happy and to bring an end to the constant conversation!

Answer 5

If they still speak about that then you can bet they are still hung up on the ex. It should have been settled before but for some reason they can't settle it in their hearts. Thread carefully with this person and hold off giving them your heart because they will hurt you.

Answer 6

Do you mean that they are telling you about sex with an ex? If that's the case I would tell them to go and find their ex since it's so important to bring up all the time.

Answer 7

Yeah, that's pretty much where you give him/her the boot. Clearly they're not thinking along the same lines as you. Their still living in the past (at least sexually). If that topic is coming up quite often, call it quits. It's drama waiting to happen. Bail out now!

Answer 8

I would feel hurt.I would sit down with him/her and let them know that when he/she talks about the past with their ex it hurts and I feel that the subject shouldn't be talked about.There is a reason why he/she is your ex.And if he couldn't do it,then there is no reason we should be together.Seems like you want to be back with your ex.then go to them.No one needs to be going thou that and have to hear this.Good Luck

Answer 9

maybe that's her way of telling you what she likes and she doesn't know there's a better way of bringing the subject up...if that's not the case she'd better move on to someone else or go back to the ex

Answer 10

thats happend to me before and the guy was just trying to get in my pants and one day he came over and like he was trying to do something(notsex) and i kept telling him to stop but he didn't and he did it and then i broke up with him and he went back out with his ex. so it mght mean he's just trying to sleep with you or likes his ex still.