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I've dated three...shacked up ("living in sin" as you would say) with one for four months (non-denominational), lived with one for nearly a year before we got hitched (church of christer), ditched her and stayed with another half-way across the country for two weeks (a Baptist). First thing each one wanted to do was jump into bed. Not that I'm complaining, I just think if someone's so high on their god, they'd follow his rules a little more closely. They would have been worth keeping if it weren't for their "issues". And please...none of this "oh, they weren't real christians" nonsense. Give me a legit answer or get deported.

2006-07-27 07:26:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

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As a Christian woman (and a virgin a few years out of her teens i might add) i have to agree with you. there are so many Christians now days that have thrown truth out the window, they think it is enough to 'believe whatever you want', but that doesn't make you a christian. it is a sign of the downward spiral this culture is making. Are they 'not true Christians'? Only God knows the heart. i am inclined to say no they aren't, but i understand that isn't what you are asking. so yes, those woman who claim to be Christians are hypocrites and i am sad to hear it. this is not what was commanded of us and i think people have stopped taking sin seriously. it is a tragedy and i wish the 'Christians' in this world would wake up and realize where our society is headed, because wherever it is... it can't be good.

2006-07-27 07:36:07 · answer #1 · answered by Kansas 3 · 13 2

Deported? Where to? I live here. Oh...you must mean, REported.

Get to know their God better, then you can ask this question.

Here's a brief answer for you. According to "their god" ALL have sinned and fall short of his glory. They are saved through faith in Him and in His provision for salvation from their sinful states.

Some Christians have a better handle on their realtionship with God than others. I suspect that the gals you hung out with had other deep issues, such as a low self-esteem.

Becoming a Christian does not make one perfect, it makes one forgiven for their sins...after that comes the process of growing in faith, growing in relationship to God, learning how with His help to do things that are more pleasing to Him...

Those gals gave in to temptation and, perhaps, the deep need for companionship, and in so doing gave you the satisfaction that you "led them astray."

Sad hobby that you would use girls this way. But, if they truly had a relationship with God, they are still loved deeply by him and he can and will work his grace into their lives...they will be stronger down the road....and even, if not, they will still be welcomed by him, because he is their righteousness...but all that is in the Bible...and I said I'd give a brief answer, but whoops...I lied...not on purpose, but I do have A.D.D., afterall...

2006-07-27 07:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by scruffycat 7 · 1 1

you're an party of a guy making use of scripture in a thanks to delight your own perspectives. Jesus states that there aren't any huge difference between male and woman contained in the eyes of God. many women served the religion in Jesus' day and nevertheless do. The verse about women very last silent turned right into a cultural element and through the years custom has replaced. If lady of religion do not communicate up in the present day, then perchance there should be no individual to talk of the affection of God and His saving grace.

2016-10-15 10:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Don't worry, a vast majority of the men will jump into bed with anything that walks upright and can pronounce 'yes' too. I'm always baffled by the 'good upright christian' boys trying to get laid all the time.

The simple answer? Hypocracy is easier than Abstinence.

2006-07-27 08:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by Kiari 3 · 1 0

Why is telling you they weren't real Christians nonsense? The bible says a tree is known by its fruits. These girls did not show the fruits of God's Spirit living in them, and I don't believe they were saved. The bible not only says fornication is a damnable sin, but also hypocrisy. So there are a lot of logical reasons why it isn't nonsense to doubt their Christianity.

2006-07-27 07:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by ©2007 answers by missy 4 · 1 1

Is there any prohibitation about polygamy & polyandry in your scripture?

Islam have detailed solution
Quraan say,s when a person want to marry with 2nd 3rd or 4th maximum limit is 4 wive,s

#1 when you want to have one or more then one wife or you should treat them equaly

#2 iff you can,t do justice between them then rely on just one
(here it denies to have more then one wife incase)

#3 you should be permitted by your existing wife or wive,s

#4 treat them equaly with love,care & respect

#5 preference is for widow,s & divorced women

Islam dislike,s divorce we are allowed in rarely cases but when he give her divorce man should pay money to her ex-wife according to his financial status for her need,s and he should pay expences for his children,s

Islam prohibit,s Adultery scrictly prohibited (Haraam) both gender,s
even tought to gaze down when saw apposite sex accept blood relation,s and close relitive,s to prevent evil thought,s

these are the way,s to open other door,s for evil just like alcohol and as to get or pay money with interest & gambling

Islam sctrictly prohibited polyandry (Haraam) becouse i have seen in many channel,s in usa that women is facing embarrassing moment,s becouse she have several bed partner,s then she now she is concerned about the father of her child even when she testified the Dna then Dna matched but still father is not taking responsibility this will become a major problem

other reason is women is not strong as man generaly she having period,s
and she is not able to deal with more man,s as man can manage more women easilly and many other reason,s this is the nature i dont care some of them having polyandry but most of them cannot handle this

why Polygamy is allowed
in only america there are 7.8 million female,s
in russia 9 million
in uk 4 million
in germany 5 million in thailand
and many country,s generally women,s are more then male

suppose every men have found one women for him then where other women,s
will go where will they find respecful martial status as to be a wife & mother ?
will SHE PREFERE TO BE SECOND WIFE TO GET THE SAME HONOR AS TO BE THE FIRST WIFE? or else

will she live her whole life lonely ?
will she become lesbian but this is extremely disgusting to do ?
will she become public property to fullfil her sexual desire without any respect ?

that,s what happening in usa and all over the world prostitution is increasing

it is comon in usa & western country,s for man having mistresses

But Islam have a solution for every evil thing in every society

dont put your own comment,s just quote refference from your scripture

i am sure you will never find perfect solutution like this in any other scripture except in Islam

2006-07-27 07:39:32 · answer #6 · answered by Deepest-Blue 2 · 0 0

you answered it for yourself...you said ," I just think if someone's so high on their god, they'd follow his rules a little more closely. "
so with that said you should have noticed they didnt walk what they said they believed...that was your big clue.....next time if a christian walks the walk ..then ok...but if they talk it and dont walk it ....there you go ..they just showed they arent serious with God...

2006-07-27 07:33:22 · answer #7 · answered by shiningon 6 · 1 0

Not all Christian women are hypocrites, I do know some that are legit. Where they Catholics? Because Catholics can anything they want. Maybe they are so sexually frustrated from years of being good.

2006-07-27 07:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by Fool in the Rain 6 · 1 1

I guarentee youve done things againt your judgment. Some are Chrisitian in name and some fall into wrong practices. Im surprised thats new to you.

2006-07-27 07:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I am a Christian woman who is not a hypocrite. That's not an invitation or anything.

2006-07-27 07:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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