there is this girl i like i have know her for over 2 years now, but did not start having feelings for her as more than friends untill about 1 year ago. we have became friends. and i am not sure wheather she likes me or not. she flirts with me usually, and when ever i see her she always smiles and waves then comes over and starts talking to me usually ignoring her friends. she also laughs at pretty much ever joke i say even if it isnt funny. i also catch her staring at me and she then turns away real fast then a few seconds later she looks back at me and smiles. i do not know whether she knows i like her or not. but one day who we like came up and she asked who i liked and i wouldnt tell her, she then jokingly said i know who you like its me then laughed but she said she didnt like me. please help do you think she likes me or should i just move on. i dont want to just ask her out b/c i dont want it to ruin our friend ship. she also asks me alot if i like her friends or not thx in advanc
2006-07-27 07:24:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude I was like you, I liked this girl, and I thought she like me so one day I asked her out and she said yea, if she is doin all that go for it, just dont be an a** about it, or when u get around ur friends dont act different
2006-07-27 07:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by Everone says I am Emo, am I? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything she does tells me that she is into you. Yes, ask her. But heres what I suggest: Plan to go someplace nice, perhaps at a lake or beach somewhere during sunset. Chat with her. Be genuine and then at some point reveal those feelings you had been harboring for so long. It might be an embarrasing moment. If it becomes that, shift your eyes over to the beauty of the water and bear it. Even if she doesn't want you, she will never forget this moment in her life. Good luck.
2006-07-27 14:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by Sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She asks u if you like her friends..probably because shes thinking the same thing your thinking "does she like me"...shes probably thinking well maybe he's just being friendly..not really flirty...so either stay in the "friend" mode...or take a chance..and let her know that if she doesnt feel the same...you still want to be her friend..and you want for things to continue but you needed to know if she had feeling for you because you have feelings for her. You never know..she might just be waiting for you to make a move...if not she will be honest with you and at least you wont have that doubt in your head. But make a decision and stick to it. Either be happy JUST being her friend cuz you seriously dont want to ruin the friendship...or make a move and show her ur interested and see what she says.
2006-07-27 14:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Caro*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you just can't take it anymore, and you really want to be with her than you need to have a serious talk with her. Don't beat around the bush, or joke around about it. Tell her you really need to talk to her about something. Ask her if she can set aside some private time for you to talk. Tell her you have been friends for a long time, and for the last year you have been having very strong feelings for her. Tell her the things that you love about her. Tell her what you hope to share with her. Be very honest and serious about it.
It sounds like she has a crush on you to. So I say give it a try. You will beat yourself up for the rest of your life wondering what could have been if you don't.
2006-07-27 14:31:52 · answer #4 · answered by Q~T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her you like her and ask if she feels the same.. otherwise you will not have a chance... one of you will end up dating someone else just because you are too shy or whatever.. tell her you value her friendship and nomatter what you don't want to mess it up.. honesty is always best.. not always the easiest but the best.. good luck.. can not win the game if you never play..
2006-07-27 14:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by valiantw2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were that girl, i know those would all be signs that i like you... If she asks you who you like, wants to spend time with, and stares at you lol i would say she likes you. She is probably waiting for you to ask her out. So if you want my advice... Go for it lol dont keep her waiting any longer
2006-07-27 14:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by LaurenLovesYou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me she likes you. It's kind of a little game we females like to play (dog chase cat). She may not come right out and say it, but body language does not lie. Play her same game and you will get quick results.
2006-07-27 14:31:42 · answer #7 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't even read all of that.......I didn't need to. You go get her...show her you car. Little things meen the most. And if she says no then you tried and you are a better man than most for trying. Be brave and go get your girl...I am sure she feels something too!
2006-07-27 14:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by kristig79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes you but she is just a bit shy. Try getting her alone and see if she is interested in doing something together--dinner, coffee, etc. Somewhere where you can talk.
2006-07-27 14:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by odi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy, hit away man she's opening the gate for you, She gave you every signal there is to give. Take my advice don/t tell her nothin, just grab and kiss her you'll see.
2006-07-27 14:28:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋