A few days ago I was suppose to have my first kiss with my boyfriend! Then I told him I couldn't do it! So the next day he dumped me, but I don't know why. I think it is because I didn't kiss him. Is that why?
2006-07-27 07:05:26 · 34 answers · asked by Scaried Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
probably. you're better off without him, dont let anyone pressure you into doing something, you'll do it when you're ready.
2006-07-27 07:07:15 · answer #1 · answered by digital genius 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever the reason, you're better off. Don' let any boy entice you to do anything you are not ready for. If he dumped you in such a crude manner, believe me, he is not worth your time.
If this was to be your first kiss then I suggest you give yourself all the time you can before you rush into a bf/gf relationship. There is no rush. Boys are mostly out for one thing. Build your self assurance and make your self respect your main asset.
2006-07-27 07:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably, guessing you are young and never EVER do anything that you feel uncomforatble with.
Try to forget him, sounds like he just wanted to kiss you. Yes, boys and men will want a woman for only one thing. Sorry, I know this hurts but don't let it get you down. When you find the right guy to kiss, you will know it...
2006-07-27 07:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg that happened to me 3 years ago my bf dumped me b/c i wouldnt kiss him i just wasnt ready and i told him that and he told me thats why it was over . there are other fish in the sea you will find someone else i sure did so there somewhere is someone for you dont ever for get that. Good Luck!
2006-07-27 07:18:40 · answer #4 · answered by darlingcuttiehottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL OF COURSE IF U HAVE A BOYFRIEND AND U DONT AT LEAST KISS HIM WELL U NEED TO GET DUMPED, WHUTZ THE POINT OF HAVING A BF, IF U CANT EVEN DO THAT>
2006-07-27 07:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by LADY J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most probably he dumped you because you did not kiss him, but I'm proud of you for not doing something you were not comfortable doing. In the long run, you will find someone who will respect you, because you respect yourself.
2006-07-27 07:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say it but...your ex-boyfriend sounds like a total moron. He didn't really love you because if he did, he would not have pressured you in the first place. He sounds very immature. Move on, girl. You sound young and believe me, it's okay to wait. You've got a lot of self-control.
2006-07-27 07:10:58 · answer #7 · answered by Petra M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hooray for you for sticking to your convictions if a guy dumps you because you won't kiss him he's the loser not you never never never let anyone pressure you into anything that you are not ready for I am proud of you and the right man is out here for you one that will love you enough to wait for you to be ready
2006-07-27 07:12:36 · answer #8 · answered by wvgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes after the kiss he was probably wanting a little more---So don't feel bad about it since he was trying to rush you into something you are not ready for!!
2006-07-27 07:11:25 · answer #9 · answered by wancarol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he dumped you just for that than he is not worth it. Guys like that are out for one thing and if he can not respect you for your decision that you can do better. Believe me.
2006-07-27 07:08:08 · answer #10 · answered by wpc_midget 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i think thats why and look at it this way if he dumped you he is the one who is missing out and now you know that he wasnt prepared to wait it would have caused problems later in the relationship.
2006-07-27 07:12:07 · answer #11 · answered by theguru_10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋