Hi,I have been dating this girl for about 7 months now but I have been taking it seriously trying to elevate our relationship to something more serious.I dont know but I really love her but I dont know if she feels the same way.When i try to bring it up its like its like she dont really care and sometimes i feel hurt.She says she loves me and all but wont have sex (which i kinda understand cos she is a virgin and 18)with me. The other thing is she wont even kiss me and frankly i think I am getting tired of it.What do you think I should do.I really love her and even if we breakup,i will find it hard to get over her.any suggestions,do you think I should forget about her and move on?
Thanks
2006-07-27 07:01:18 · 4 answers · asked by medotech 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you ever consider the fact that she might be scared. You said she was a virgin. Are you trying to press her? Sometimes people back away when they are afraid. Give her time and don't press the issue.
2006-07-27 07:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by clbowman06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her, you should respect her boundaries. When she is ready to take that step, she will let you know. She is young and probably scared. Me and my first boyfriend dated for 9 months before I kissed him. Almost a year and a half before we had sex. I just was ready to go there. But if she loves you, she should be willing to talk to you about it. Communication is the key to all good relationships. You need to be firm with her about having this conversation. She should at least give you a reason why she wont kiss you. If she says shes just not ready, thats fine. If she says she doesnt know, maybe you should reevaluate your relationship with her.
2006-07-27 14:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to ask what is wrong with the to of u kissing. i can see by Ur words that u really luv her.and respect whatever it is that she says and try to wait it out the time will come when she will be ready for it be patient
2006-07-27 14:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by kimmy21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey buddy, if yu are so in love with her..why do yu force her on kissisng or sex...Yu love her buddy. Yu shoudl acre her a lot and give her time to understand yu. Its not abt sex..it love, if yu'r s true...yu souldn't actually, expect sex..
2006-07-27 14:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by koool d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋