in the bedroom. I know this is not always true, but it just seems to genearlly be true. I have been told that larger ladies feel like they are less appealing so they try harder to make up for it. I ain't buying it, because I find BBW's very attractive and also a lot of them are very confident in their own looks, so they do not feel the need to compensate. However if this is not the reason, what is ?? From my own personal experience I have found this to be true, as have several other men that I have asked. They all agree the larger women for the most part are far more adventurous in the bedroom. So ladies can you enlighten me ??
2006-07-27 06:57:43 · 12 answers · asked by urnextbigthang 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone is different in the bedroom, to me it would make a difference if it was a one nighter or a long term relationship.. I tend to be spicy in the bedroom but have been married for 5 years, and I am a BBW
2006-07-27 07:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by 9929 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all has to do with self esteem, BBW or not (and I'm a BBW!!)!
Personally, there was a time years ago when dealing with less mature/enlightened individuals, I was made fun of, but that just enticed me more to prove that weight had nothing to do with being attractive, both mentally and physically; I decided to take the bull by the horns (so to speak!) and make each moment count! Hey, practice makes perfect!
2006-07-30 15:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by sweet ivy lyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I can't enlighten you because I don't believe it's the case...I don't think a woman's size has much at all to do with how she behaves when having sex as far as adventurous or fun to be with...it's an individual thing, not a weight/size thing...I've been obese and I've been thin and my enthusiasm when having sex had nothing to do with my size, but more to do with my partner and how much I was enjoying the experience...
I think the idea that large women are more fun in bed is generally perpetuated by large women, and I'm sure it's an ego boost for many of them to say and believe that....it's a harmless idea and if it turns out to be true sometimes, bonus for that couple...
But women of all sizes can be wild in bed...or can be duds...
2006-07-27 07:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can be adventerous, and maybe your are right in the feeling less appealing, but I think it's mostly any woman herself who likes to be adventerous. All the bbw's I know have great personalities, and they are just like me only a little more beautiful in their own right!
2006-07-27 07:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think us more curvy women feel more froggy in the bed room because we have more to work with. We got it and we flaunt it. Women who look like tooth pick dont have the assets to shake things up a bit. We,...do. I love being a curvy female. I mean, there are parts of my body that I am not to fond of, but I dont let that slow me down. The wilder I am the more fun I have. Curvy women have more fun. Thats just how it is...
2006-07-27 07:03:20 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am a former BBW (recently lost 50 lbs to try to deal with some chronic pain issues) who happens to be totally uninhibited in the bedroom....i think its has a lot to do with the fact that as a "big girl" we are less snobby and uptight and more willing to please. not so much that we are "compensating" we just dont have the whole "your so lucky to be with me" attitude and from personal experience BBW's have learned that who they are is who they are and they run with that and enjoy themselves fully.
2006-07-27 07:08:48 · answer #6 · answered by christine a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never been a BBW, but I"ve kept things in the bedroom spicy enough that my hubby of 15 years has never had to look elsewhere.
Has nothing to do with size, it has to do with what you are willing to do to keep yourself and your hubby happy.
2006-07-27 07:02:35 · answer #7 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL-----I will try I personally don't think the size HA HA HA of a woman matters as much as the fact of whether she is turned on by the man she is with!! Say for example right at this moment if I were to be with this one man I haven't seen in about 15 years WELL--use your imagination!!!! Hint I would want it to last for days and nights and days and nights and------
2006-07-27 07:07:35 · answer #8 · answered by wancarol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
George Cloney: Tall adequate, rattling sturdy searching, wise, a conversationalist, humorousness and correctly bred. i ought to easily wander off in the park all day with a guy like that.
2016-11-26 19:09:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask one of the larger women you've been with.
2006-07-27 07:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by mumtaz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋