2006-07-27 06:42:39 · 14 answers · asked by Madalene V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You could try talking to him.
2006-07-27 06:46:01 · answer #1 · answered by BigPappa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old you are and what the problem is. It is usually best to develop a mutually respectful relationship that will stand the test of time. If you are under 18, you may be experiencing growing pains and a desire to become independent while your dad still sees you as a child. These are normal transitions to adulthood and if each of you could respect the other persons view, it makes the transition easier.
2006-07-27 13:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by petlover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless there is abuse taking place, I think you should should take a deep breath and try to take your feelings out of it. Could it be that he is cramping your style or telling you things you don't want to hear? It is common for both sides to be frustrated, he probably is not enjoying these times either.
Stay put until you have a real reason to leave. Not "humph, I'm got of here" with an attitude. Rather, "you have raised me to make good decisions. I have a job that can provide medical insurance, I have a savings plan, I have a safe place to live and can afford utilities, transportation and food on my own. I have a plan to become educated and make something of myself. Wish me well."
As you mature, many problems take care of themselves. Don't damage the relationship further by hurting yourself to spite him.
2006-07-27 13:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by Singlemomof10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to, do it. Otherwise you might be scarred by him for the rest of your life like me( won't go into that) just don't move in with a guy when you go. Find a friend and talk about it and if he is being abusive stay away from him.
2006-07-27 13:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by hyacinth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there are problems that you are too angry to resolve, then move out and give yourself time to cool off. I have disagreements with my dad all the time and we stop talking for awhile, and then he'll call me or i'll call him and it is like nothing happened and we are happy to hear or see each other again.
2006-07-27 13:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by geewhizbaby2008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but your dad maybe only trying to protect you from the cruel world outside his door. So stop listening to out of control friends and realize that your not really missing out on anything.
2006-07-27 13:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by beatyful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter how many problems you have with your parents...you can never not love them. they are your parents, they gave you life ...you will always love them
if you are really having problems and cant stand him at this point and feel it would be better to leave...then you should move out but never lose contact or love for him...he is your dad
i wish you the best
2006-07-27 13:46:59 · answer #7 · answered by iWorkonComputers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am having the same exact problem right now. I don't know about you but i am stuck with him for now because I am only sixteen but if your old enough get out as soon as possible
2006-07-27 13:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it is time for this little bird to fly free.you need to move out,not should you.if you want to keep loving your dad you need to spend more time away from him.if he is any kind of nice dad he will understand.he will always want what is best for his little girl.even though it may not seem like it to you. i hope this helps you make a decision on your problem.good luck with your life.
2006-07-27 13:58:01 · answer #9 · answered by curtismarsch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you are. If you are of age and can support yourself then by all means get on with your life as an adult on your own. Sometimes a little distance can mend a lot of fences. m
2006-07-27 13:49:21 · answer #10 · answered by Mache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to another family member to help you out. Leaving is not a option
2006-07-27 13:46:27 · answer #11 · answered by re3us 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋