Ok so I have been talking with this guy and so far I really like him. He wants us to go out tomorrow night, but I am really not sure. The only thing stopping me is that we have never seen each other. And I do not want to put myself in a bad situation if you know what I mean. Am i over reacting, or is it just normal jitters?
2006-07-27 06:26:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby girl, it's nornal to be scare of the unknow. it's okay to meet him. make sure it's a public place. take your cell phone with you. let some know where you going to be. and have them call you or you call them to check in. make sure it's just a lunch date. this might be too far, but if you could take someone with you.
2006-07-27 06:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal. Meet at a safe public place - do not let him pick you up. You might want to double date with one of your friends who has a boyfriend so you have 2 people to protect you if he is a whacko. Its a first date, so don't worry about being offensive and be straight forward about being uncomfortable. If he is worth it, he will be understand where you are coming from. Remember, dating is supposed to be fun! Good Luck!
2006-07-27 13:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by Michael S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not overreacting, just being careful. I would arange a meeting with him and bring a friend. Like meet at the mall or something for a quick lunch. That way you can leave early if you don't like the situation. Make up an excuse.
2006-07-27 13:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by Mike H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is normal since u never seen him find a couple of friends who would double date with u cuz ur situation could b worse if u went by urself not knowin him like u should.
2006-07-27 13:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by dagirl10149 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not over reacting, its quite normal, who will be anxious to go out someone they don`t know.
I think you should go with a lot of persons/friends that is/someone who can protect you if the person turns out to be a stalker or just some weirdo.
2006-07-27 13:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by Beautiful chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds normal, just be sure you meet in a public place and let friends or family know where you are going.
2006-07-27 13:30:54 · answer #6 · answered by str8tequila80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is nuts honestly love this guy could be the next jack the ripper firstly you should see if he has a web cam go on it, take a friend with you and sum pepper spray just in case and always tell your parents where your going
2006-07-27 13:33:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So I guess this is a blind date??? nah its understandable that your jittery.... Well go with it, but remember if you dont like em just keep it cool. and try not to give him the cold shoulder as much. then slowly slip away into the night.
2006-07-27 13:32:03 · answer #8 · answered by tha_social 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet in a public place keep yourself safe and carry your cell phone just in case. he may be a good person and then again he may not be you need to stay safe maybe you could double date with another friend
2006-07-27 13:35:52 · answer #9 · answered by mom19242000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to meet you in a certain spot. IN PUBLIC! Go somewhere and check him out first. If he's not your type, just don't show up. Who cares if he gets pissed, and don't lie if he asks , tell him that you saw him first, and he just wasn't your type. If he is, you're in luck!
2006-07-27 13:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋