it seems like the right guy is just not there for me.i want i guy who likes nature,sports,is funny and is "deep" and kind hearted.am i just to picky?cuz i dont want to ask a guy out if hes not the right one.will i ever find him?am i not doing what needs to be done to find him?am i just being stupid?someone plz give me advice!no smart alics PLZ!
2006-07-27 06:03:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LivinLovin: He sounds just like me................ when I was 15, but alas I am now 65 and married for 39 years. Pity......... However, I have no doubt whatsoever, you will find him and he won't be a stranger, he will be someone who has admired you from a distance. Teenage boys and young men are scared silly of beautiful young women so relax and make some moves. You will find him but he will not drop out of the trees onto your lap - you have to work for it. Once again, I tell you, it will be worth it in the long run because when you find him, you will marry him in a couple of years, have four beautiful children and later on have another six grandchildren. When you are 65 think of me and my advice.................. Take care and God bless (good hunting)...
2006-07-27 06:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How are you ever going to find out if he's the right guy if you don't ask him out? You're not too picky, but you've got to at least let them have a chance...some guy may be interested in all those things, but you'd never know because you're afraid he won't, and if you do meet a guy that you like, don't hold it against him if he isn't as into nature as you'd like or isn't quite into sports...Kind hearted is the best feature that you're looking for...keep looking for that and the rest will come naturally.
2006-07-27 06:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by jillymack06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay try this make a list of all the guys you are crushing on that asked you out or what write down a number like 6 then write down all the pros and cons of that people now what which ever got to six or more is who you should be with your maybe a little picky but the truth your just looking for the wrong things
2006-07-27 06:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by a girl 4 u 2 envy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if your too picky or not because I have not seen your choices. But, if you know what you want then great. Maybe try to NOT look so hard. Usually when you just live and forget about it is when "love" comes and slaps you in the back side. (a good thing). If you meet someone who tickles your fancy but may not be the "perfect" match for you, try it anyway. You never know. Take chances and if you get burnt well, too bad it happens.
"If life doesn't hurt sometimes...then your just not livin' it right".
If you don't take chances then you will never get any chances......get my drift???
2006-07-27 06:12:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat as you. Its hard to connect to someone that you want that person to have the same similar interests as you. I always tell myself that, that person is out there waiting for me, and you should be patient. Its hard not having that person being beside you when you need them or wake up too. You arent stupid either, you are ready to commit but with the right person. Just take a deep breath and go shopping! That usually works for me. lol
2006-07-27 06:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you looking? Do you belong to a singles hiking club? Do you play co-ed sports? any sports? The best way to meet a guy with similar interests is to take part in activities that you enjoy. Sooner or later you will meet someone you like or will meet people who know someone you might like. Either way, at least you are doing things you like to do.
2006-07-27 06:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by marlio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will purely help from a Christian attitude, so if that bothers you do not study on. look up a clean testomony (you're particular to were provided one at college by the Gideons) and browse verses 6 -7 in bankruptcy 4 of Paul's letter to the Philippians. i'm 80 5 and that passage has seen me by my existence, consisting of the premature lack of existence of my father, then 5 years as a WW2 RAF Pilot (& a million crash), the deaths of two loving different halves and the worried exhaustion of operating a organization on a shoestring. stick with that suggestion and, as promised, it provide you a "peace surpassing expertise".
2016-10-15 06:39:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you said no smart alics but this is just my nature. if you look for a guy like that you'll die of old age before you find him. "deep" guys don't eist in this world. my philosophy is you'll stumble upon the right one at the right time. don't look! its a waste of valuable time! just hope that he finds you and if you meet the on you think is right then ask him out and pray like crazy that he likes you back.
2006-07-27 06:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are person with their own personality.some can be serious like some like to have fun.
All guys have there fun of living so give them the chance.
Dont try to find him just wait them to find you.key is the patience.good luck
2006-07-27 06:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by none 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur not being stupid i wont ask a guy out unless i really really like him. u'll find him sooner or later. u just got wait. u should keep ur eye out for him. mayb u already know him and u didn't know he was going to b the one. just wait and see. he'll b here
2006-07-27 06:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by dancechic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋