my sister has serious problem , she wants to be a controlling wife she is 2 months pregnant and her and her husband bump heads all the time they really get into deep arguments and sometimes it gets physical. my brother in law has some fault in this but mostly is on her . when he trys to joke with her she takes everything seriously and she is allways checking up on him he has to tell her what he does who he calls and trys to be to controlling and she wont let him go out by him with my husband for guy time so me and her can go out shopping together and she said no. i mean she is my sister in all but she is to overprotective and takes everything seriuosly and i think that she is to controlling what adive can you guys give me so i can tell her.
2006-07-27 05:46:50 · 6 answers · asked by bronze23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Get her the book, The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands by Dr. Laura. Best marriage book I have EVER read.
2006-07-27 07:09:09 · answer #1 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that you've done the best that you can do, you've already talked to her, now it's up to them to solve their problems. I can understand your fustration but there not much you can do in this case. If your sister doesn't change and their marriage ends, she'll find out about her mistakes. Hopefully your sister and her husband get help or solve their problems before things get ugly, so my recommedation to you is talk to her once more, and tell her if she doesn't change not only she'll be putting her marriage at risk, her husband will get tired of her and leave her. Try to help her out, but if there's no solution then just let them be.
2006-07-27 07:43:55 · answer #2 · answered by Maria A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it gets physical and she is that controlling, you should consider that this is actual abuse of her husband and more than just a personality glitch on her part. Consider contacting the national domestic violence hotline for their advice. They deal with this type of situation more frequently and should have some good suggestions. Their website is:
http://www.ndvh.org/
I hope that you can get this figured out. There is no need to be bringing a baby into such an environment!
2006-07-27 05:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by Cara B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her about how she is acting. Problem is, her hormones are raging right now and she will probably take offense to anything you say. But, you need to say something since you said things get physical between the two of them at times. Let her know that if something happened to that baby she would never forgive herself and her hubby would probably go to prison for it. Tell her you miss spending time with her and that your husband likes spending time with hers. Don't make her feel guilty, make her feel loved, and you will have more success.
2006-07-27 05:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by The Nana of Nana's 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest, and tell her as your opinoin. Most likey she will tak offense and you will argue about it. She will probably not listen...drive her husband away, and wonder what she did wrong when he sweeps you off of your feet.
2006-07-27 05:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is none of your business.
It is their problem and let them sort it out.
Mind your self and keep your self out of their problem.
They know how to handle their problems.
If they want to go to hell, let them go.
It seems your sister is a senseless woman, without common sense and logic.
Leave her to her destiny.
2006-07-27 05:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋