MY BF is a construction worker and I understand that he is tierd most of the time. But, we only have sex usually once on the weekends. I feel very frustrated with this because I am not one who depends on sex...but damn I do like it and want it more. We have been dating for 3 years and living together for 2.5. I feel that we should be having it more considering we are both only 26 and 27. I feel that it is a chore for him and when I ask or hint he usually comes up with a excuse. But when he wants it he gets it. I have tried to say no to him when he wants it but I end up folding because it comes down to getting it. I don't feel that I am that bad of a looker and I feel that a lot of my pend up frustartion comes from the lack there of. I really am at a loss is this normal for our ages and our dating lifespan?
2006-07-27 05:45:25 · 12 answers · asked by kristig79 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have been throught this. i was 24 and i worked nights. my ex would constantly mess with me to have sex with him and i would give in even when i was tired. but when i wanted it i had to work my hardest to get it! BS i know. but that was when i was a little younger. now that i am 32 yrs young, i love making love to my guy. he works out of town at least 1-2 weeks out of the month and i dont care if we are having it everynight. i love it. it gets better hun hold your head up....
2006-07-27 05:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by wicked 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Construction work is very tiring. Try it for a day and you'll understand why he's not up for the task more often. You could try setting up a nice romantic evening with candles, music, and you waiting at the door naked or scantly clad. If that don't work...either you're not appealing to him anymore...or he is really dog *** tired. I know if someone met me at the door like that...I'd do her in my sleep if I had to!! I wouldn't listen to these immature rantings that he is cheating, unless you have solid proof of that. If he's up to it when he's more rested on the weekends, I'd say his reason is legit. Hang in there. There's always marital aids to help in this situation.
2006-07-27 06:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by paesano2578 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok girl. This whole relationship thing is normal. It's either u guys aren't doing the sex pattern right or u guys aren't taking interest in it. Make sex more interesting. If u don't use toys.... start using them... It brings plessure. if u want sex try a vibrator. It works for best orgasms. If he wants sex u need to ask if he is horny and has a *****. if he's not interested in u tell him to **** off and try again later for sex. And if u think ur not beautiful try boosting up the looks. go shoping. get wild. make sex fun wit ur honey. I hear victorias secret and spencers have great stuff. so go get him chica.
2006-07-27 05:53:36 · answer #3 · answered by carl w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he's tired should be enough for you. Construction work isn't an easy thing to do and it takes its toll on you after a long day. What you might want to do is maybe suggest to him how you feel about your sex life and then if he's open and suggestive, then maybe this will help it
2006-07-27 05:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by Michael_D_Miller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the average couple your age probably has sex 3 to 5 times a week. He may actually be tired. Try to do something spice up the relationship (buy a sex toy or something equally erotic ( northtexastoys.com is a good place).
...good luck
2006-07-27 05:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just need to spice things up a little, go and get some toys and some oils and make a night of it and rub and play and see if he doesn't find something that will get him back into it
2006-07-27 05:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by freeatlastboone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is sleeping w/someone else no if, ands or buts about it.. if he wasn't he would want urs more often.. now if ur discussing this w/him and ur only getting some when he wants it than that's a problem.. tell him to ship up or ship out and that u better not find out that there's anyone else or leave him...
2006-07-27 05:49:34 · answer #7 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put something sexy on for him,are hell just come out in the nude, tease him caress him kiss and s*** him.Get him in the mood I'm sure you will conceded.
2006-07-27 05:53:13 · answer #8 · answered by southcoastgirl01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its truly no longer regularly occurring, sorry. per chance he truly is purely drained, or possibly hes no longer truly in contact in it, it is definately strange... i imagine you would possibly want to sit him down and function a extreme communicate with him about howdy
2016-10-15 06:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is cheating on u
2006-07-27 05:48:23 · answer #10 · answered by love maker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋