So, I know how long I wait to have sex with someone new...I was just wondering how long other girls wait...Just insight, I don't need smart a** answers.
2006-07-27 05:41:55 · 27 answers · asked by Su-Fi 4ever! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not too young, I'm 21. I'm also not a virgin and I'm straight. I was just curious...
2006-07-27 05:48:48 · update #1
When they are ready. Some will jump a guy they meet within hours. Some wait years. Kinda depends on you, culture, religion, and the guy.
No real rule or guideline. Gotta weigh the slut factor into it versus the impulse/true love/true lust/free spirit thing.
Also, are you looking for friends with benifits or a lasting relationship?
2006-07-27 05:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by campojoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends, I've only had two relationships where I have had sex and both of them I waited a couple months and I was in love.(well at least I thought I was in love for the first one) Other relationships I just never felt comfortable enough to let it progress into sex. Seriously I had a boyfriend at one point that we dated for 2 years and he didnt get any, kinda feel sorry for the fella lol
2006-07-27 05:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the girl u r, Because it is all about a person morals and their beliefs. Some girls may have never had sex on the first date and then meet someone they really vibe with n have it on the first night.
Some girls only want a one night stand and that's it.
So you decide what ur looking for n that's the type of girl u will be.
So it really is ur call, and most guys don't realize that.
2006-07-27 05:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by leenabootie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur a girl too? So ur gay? Or bi? Not all girls are the same. I dunno about lesbians. I am str8 and believe in no sex till marriage. Ur a girl so u should know. If this is ur first time dating, ur too young. Wait? U sound unready and sex obssessed. It just happens sometimes. There isn't a time, a ":wait" a oh I'll know before a date to have sex rule. I don't believe in those.
2006-07-27 05:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite personally, I wish everyone would wait until they commit and get married. It may not be politically correct or popular, but when you look at all the problems that come with people mating with unsuitable partners (children, disease, broken hearts, single parenthood, children without fathers...etc) I would hope that sloppy sexual practices would decline.
Birds make better mating choices than humans...that's sad.
2006-07-27 05:48:30 · answer #5 · answered by Baby Bloo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, i only believe in having sex with one person ever. But i know relationships dont work out. Dont just automatically jump in bed with a guy. It is best to wait things out to make sure the guy is in the relationship because he cares about you, and not just because he thinks your hot and want to have sex wih you. They normally dont make it past 3-4 mo. if they are in it for sex.
2006-07-27 05:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by Alisa Lyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no one answer.
The rule of thumb is to date a man 3-5 times at least before you have sex. But, it is personal preference.
2006-07-27 05:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's different for everybody it all depends on the girl. before i sleep with my partner i waited about a year to make sure that i was ready and i wanted to do it.
2006-07-27 05:46:12 · answer #8 · answered by ashley5101987 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends upon you. Everyone is different. Just go by your feelings and you make the decision for yourself. I'm sorry but this is something you have to decide for yourself.
2006-07-27 05:47:12 · answer #9 · answered by jacquelinebrns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what type of girl you got here's some examples
whore; first day
sneaky freak; 5 weeks
virgin; a month and a half or until marriage
2006-07-27 05:47:07 · answer #10 · answered by a girl 4 u 2 envy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋