Should I get a male or female kitten?

Question

What diffrences exist between male and female kittens and cats? Wheather I decide male or female I will be getting the kitten 'fixed' when they are old enough, so pregnancy is not a deciding factor here just personality and habits.

Answer 1

I can really relate to this question because I have 2 each! I am an activist in my area in working with the SPCA on spaying & neutering, since theres such an over population, SOooo, to hear you say you would have them fixed really made me happy, as that is such a responsible thing to do!!

Male or female, they are both such wonerful loving companions, not really much difference between any of mine, they all love to cuddle, get on our laps when they feel like it, they are just very loving animals. Some people say males tend to be more affectionate, but, one of my females is an exception to that rule....

The only thing with males, just make sure you get them neutered before they get old enough to start getting territorial, in which they will start to spray, we had our boys done under 6 months old, and they actually squat lower than my females do when they go potty!!!!!!! Just so you know, once they are spayed or neutered, doesnt make them lazy, cats sleep allot anyways, we have things around in our house that they play with, so they dont get bored....

So, I hope I was of some help, giving them a loving home is all they require, & having them spayed or neutered, they will live a long, happy healthy life.

Answer 2

I have a male - he is still a kitten, technically, less than an year old - altered cat. He is a best friend, in my hour of need.

But you know, you should be looking not that much at the sex of the kitten, but at the parents, especially at the mother. I have read that if the mother is well-behaved and sociable, so will the kittens be; and mind that the kitten is not taken from the mother too young, so that the mother has some time to impart her her good behaviour at the kitten.

Mine was a little grown (he was upwards of five months) when I got him, but he was well behaved from the beginning. When he came to my flat, he was so afraid he wouldn't come out from under the bed for three days, except at night, when he would drink water (and no food at all!) and go to the cat toilet (never anywhere else, even in his initial scared state). After I had him altered, he became even more active, running around the flat when he feels like exercise.

Cats require less explicit care than dogs (meaning, you don't need to walk them), but to have your cat behave well, you have to pay attention to him or her... Play with your kitten, pet him/her, groom him/her.. etc. Don't let your kitten feel alone or bored, then s/he will start doing mischief. If you follow that, your kitten will love you and you will love your kitten. Oh, be careful of loud noises! They startle cats too much. :)

Answer 3

Okay here goes..If you are going to get the cat fixed female or male it does not matter.My female cat Sarah has not been fixed because she is a lively cat with a personality all her own. After they have been fixed they get fat and lazy and are not playful anymore.Sarah is Siamese and has had a couple of litters of kittens. She looks to me as her friend and owner to help her when she has them.I never have a problem finding them homes as I do not sell them, and there is always someone asking for them. It is up to you, but males do spray and they will stay gone for days if not fixed. Females of course stay close to home and will get pregant.I think it is totally up to you. When it is time you find the right cat for you. Good Luck. Glad someone out there loves cats like I love Sarah.

Answer 4

Working in a vet clinic I see more people getting male kittens because its cheaper in the end to fix.
I have a female & male cat and other then that they are the same.
It's all in how we socialize them and play with them that developes there demeaner.
A kitten can be fixed at 5 to 6 months of age

Answer 5

I have and have had many cats of both sexes. Once you get the boys done they tend to be much more loving and personal whilst the females still tend to go out and about without paying you much attention. There are no rules however, this is only a generality. Another point to remember is that the girls tend to maintain their hunting instinct more strongly than the boys. This means that if they are to be kept indoors then the girl will become much more frustrated and destructive, outside she is more likely to hunt and bring you back animals of all types. Usually only half dead. Either way you will love whichever you get but personally i find the boys easier to live with and more fun. Good luck

Answer 6

If you have to get a cat for god sake make sure it's a female our cat is 17 years old and a tom he is the most arrogant obnoxious creature on this earth - we had him spade when he was a year because he sprayed everything (you cant get rid of the smell easily) even though he was done he still managed to spray everything that came into the house that had a different smell -now in his old age he hates going out and stands in his litter tray with his bum hanging over the edge - believe it or not we love him but I will never ever have another cat when he goes!!!

Answer 7

I have 2 females and a male cat,, the tom is definitely the more colourful of the 3 character wise, he wants to play more and loves cuddles, the females are quite 'stuck up' in comparison, so I would recommend getting a male every time.

Answer 8

Having had a couple of both, I would say that if you're looking for a more affectionate cat then have a male. My current female is very snooty, moody and take it or leave it about affection (as was my other one), my last male cat was a joy to have around, always purring and never ever bit or scratched - so was my other male cat.

Answer 9

Male kittens are the sweetest. But sometimes a little needy.
Female kittens are nice to. but alittle mean some times. I two female cats. and one male. I like the male better. But once they are fixed, they are the same!

Answer 10

Female cats, as they mature, are calmer in nature. I had a female cat for 15 years. She passed away this year, bless her soul. Now I have two male cats and they are brats. They whine, demand attention... But then they are oh so lovable I would never give them away.

So the question is, do you want a calm companion or a baby? If you want a baby get a male cat.