I love my boyfriend alot! and we been together for almost 1 year and he dont pay attention to me like i want him too i dont know how to tell him? also he pays attention to his car alot then me what should i do i need to know!!!!!! i dont want to break up with him but i just need advice about what i need to tell him.
2006-07-27 04:38:27 · 9 answers · asked by ~* J@N3T ~* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why did you make this question 3 times?
2006-07-27 04:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't a question of whether or not he likes you...if he didn't he wouldn't be with you. I know in my situation...i'm a busy person...and I've been with my fiance for almost a year as well. In relationships this long one thing that is very important to remember is how to balance the fact the people need space. They need it as much as they need to be with someone. You both need to learn to balance those to needs. One thing you can do is take advantage of time he is focused on you. You can do that by not rambling on about all the attention he doesn't spend on you...that will just make him want to spend more time with his car...who doesn't ramble about him not payng attention to it. Long term relationships are hard...it takes some giving on both sides to make it work. One thing you are going to have to give him is a little freedom...period...
2006-07-27 04:57:11 · answer #2 · answered by Dustin S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you must then show an interest in things he likes and he might enjoy that and start paying attention to you a little more
2006-07-27 04:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to a woman's world. I feel your pain Mamma. Turn your attention elsewhere and give him a little space. Men like a good hunt even when it feels like game playing shouldn't come into the picture, it helps to make them work. My man is the same way and I am married. Exhausting.....
2006-07-27 04:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by shannonlilia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not always about you lady, i.e., when YOU want attention. I find women are very "me,me,me, me." Besides cars don't whine...
2006-07-27 04:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by longlastinghandle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how that makes you upset.
He should understand.
You should also tell him that you want more attention.
2006-07-27 04:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by hott_hott_roxie123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm.....didnt u ask this 3 times already???
i cant really help u, sooo....good luck, i guess
2006-07-27 04:42:32 · answer #7 · answered by Patty's Tat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe cuz ur ugly
2006-07-27 04:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you want ???
2006-07-27 04:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by treeman1266 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋