I don't need to learn what is LOVE from others (friends, family, books, history, etc.). You can teach me anything in life except love. Don't tell me who I should or shouldn't love. Likewise, it's my life, I'm my own destiny, I'm the love, I define love whatever I feel in my heart.
Do not be influenced by others, live the life of love and happiness to the one you love.
Everyone has this freedom, freedom of love. No one can teach you, but need to learn it yourself and learn it with your lover, no one else but her!
Remember, all of your answers are the BEST!
2006-07-27 04:31:59 · 16 answers · asked by www.usanetsol.com 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
dark_storm73: I agree, yes I've already learned the basics of love and I said in that fashion given that I'm matured or so I hope. :)
2006-07-27 04:51:47 · update #1
I'm married but have no children yet. When my daughter grows up, I tell her the same, freedom of love.
2006-07-27 05:29:55 · update #2
you are a fool
2006-07-27 04:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by Wicked voodoo dope dark killer 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
a couple things: first, if you are never influenced by anyone, you've missed out on a lot of extremely important lessons, and you've lived in a plastic bubble. Second, don't confuse love with sex. That's a common mistake, but it's still a mistake. Sex is an expression of love between man and woman, but in an of itself it is simply an animal desire. Third, freedom comes with responsibility. The nuts out there who thing that freedom means doing whatever you want whenever you want no matter what have a lot to learn about freedom. Freedom is about the ability to choose, and choosing what is correct.
2006-07-27 08:20:43 · answer #2 · answered by zver76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree... too many people sit on the sidelines and try to tell you who to love, how to love and when. There are some things you can learn like that, but loving someone isn't really learned until you do actually fall in love. Some lessons are hard, but the best ones you only find by walking that path, so to speak.
I do disagree on one point, however. You DO learn the basics of love from your family and friends. What type of person you are disserns what lessons you learn, but you learn how to love from others and what the other party feels so that you can be empathetic to their feelings. For example, if you have been hurt, when you do something that hurts someone, you can relate to them and that will motivate you, through your love for them, to try not to hurt them, etc.
2006-07-27 04:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by dark_storm73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be influenced by others, live the life of love and happiness to the one you love.
2006-07-27 04:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is some deep thinking on what love is.you can only teach yourself what love is. Nobody else could. You are so true that you can define love in your heart cause that is where love is stored.
2006-07-27 09:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by alexia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can usually always say and do our very best....UNTIL we become emotionally involved. That's when the logic goes astray.
Point being, your logic is in tact! :)
I also receive the impression that you have not become a parent yet...Talk about learning a few things!
2006-07-27 05:25:20 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Jesus told us that he would rather Christians be cold than lukewarm. If we are "lukewarm" Christians, he will spew us out of his mouth." So, I guess instead of hot or cold, you've chosen to burn. I guess you've used your God-given free will to choose hell. Congratulations.
And unto the angel of the church of the Laodiceans write; These things saith the Amen, the faithful and true witness, the beginning of the creation of God; I know thy works, that thou art neither cold nor hot: I would thou wert cold or hot. So then because thou art lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will spue thee out of my mouth. Because thou sayest, I am rich, and increased with goods, and have need of nothing; and knowest not that thou art wretched, and miserable, and poor, and blind, and naked: I counsel thee to buy of me gold tried in the fire, that thou mayest be rich; and white raiment, that thou mayest be clothed, and [that] the shame of thy nakedness do not appear; and anoint thine eyes with eyesalve, that thou mayest see. As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten: be zealous therefore, and repent.
Revelation 3:14-19 (KJV)
2006-07-27 04:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you must 1st love yourself, before you can receive love from someone, or at least before you can recognise and appreciate it!
2006-07-27 04:36:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very interesting point i like it one i might even repeat in a future conversation...good luck
2006-07-27 04:34:50 · answer #9 · answered by Nader 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have never known love it is hard to give it and saying your lover to me implys sex more than love maybe it is just me ???
my coment is it does not make sence to me therefor bad
2006-07-27 04:35:57 · answer #10 · answered by Sam's 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... that is a hard one....
I think i agree.. love is more of an instinc than learnable skill..
2006-07-27 04:35:33 · answer #11 · answered by Rachelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋