What does this mean... I am currently in process of getting divorced... my ex wants me to consider us getting back together once my divorce is final... I told him I didn't know how I felt about that right now we could discuss that later... to complicate the situationbut he is seeing someone right now...he calls her his girlfriend, but says he loves her and is not in love with her and she isn't worth losing me over... but at the same time he says he doesn't want me to jeopordize his "companionship" with her.. I'm confused.. I dont' want a relationship with him right now...I don't interfere in his life and have no intention of doing that.. I want to get my divorce and be on my own and who knows in the future maybe I would consider us again if he is free... I just am unsure right now... but what does he mean by his "companionship" with her.. he even stumbles when he calls her his girlfriend... what do you guys think??
2006-07-27 04:23:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People read the post... he is my ex... I am not wanting to be with him right now... and he contacted me not the other way around... I told him I can't concentrate on anyone but me...I was just confused about him calling that companionship... I read sex.. but wondered if I was wrong!!!
2006-07-27 04:29:49 · update #1
when i said my ex... he isn't my husband... he is my ex from before my husband...
2006-07-27 04:31:22 · update #2
look l would get the divorced and be by your self and have a life for yourself and let him stay with his so call girlfriend and let him relies what a fool his been by losing you
2006-07-27 04:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by TONI K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hun I am going through the same thing a divorce from my husband and now he is calling more than ever saying that he doesn't want a divorce and living with his girlfriend at first I didn't get it either but I think that they want to see what we are going to do they don't want to loose on the relationship cuzz guys hate to loose but they also want there girlfriend basically they want there cake and pie too....dont let him its a reason why you get a divorce cuzz if it wasnt then you wouldnt......better yourself and maybe one day someone else will come around and sweep you off your feet I know cuzz I'm experiencing this right now let it go just be friends with him cuzz you don't want to end up getting married again and going through another divorce with him again because of the same girl
luv
2006-07-27 11:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by Jo3-Jo3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you poor thing! You married quite a piece of work. I know you love him, but love yourself more and keep on proceeding with this divorce. I'm not one to encourage them, but why stay in a relationship that you're not getting what you want and need from it? And companionship? Puh-lease! This husband of yours must think you're an idiot, but I know better than that. He wants to behave like a teenager and have the best of both worlds. Don't let him have sh*t. Don't compromise yourself here...you deserve a husband who loves you and only you, and wants to be with just you. After all, that's what a marriage is all about. Good luck.
2006-07-27 11:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I am 14 my parents just went threw devource .and now they are living together agian and its not like it was 2 years ago. At least 3 nights a week I wake up to them Arguing og fighting.So I dont reccomend it. The other reason I dont reccomend it is because if he has a girl friend than he will probal cheat on you if you 2 get because together
Best of luck
Steven
2006-07-27 11:32:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im glad you are getting divorced-cos thats all this guy deserves-stay away from him for good-he wants to use you & have someone to come back to if things go wrong with his present girlfriend-be happy you are moving on & soon you will meet somebody else who will treat the way you should be-good luck
2006-07-27 11:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by butterfly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should follow through with the divorce as planned,and let him continue playing mind games minus one player. Good Luck to you! Oh and the future has somethingelse in store for you just don't give up!
2006-07-27 11:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by purple_dogs_bed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONEY....he is saying he wants his cake and eat it too. I for one would not get back with him because if he wanted to reconcile he can do that before the divorce is final and on top of that what type of person is he to say that he is with this other woman but he is still in love with you but he loves her........however not enough to loose you over. Honey get your divorce move on and find happiness elsewhere. GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-27 11:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by poohbearmomma_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he wants to have sex wtih her. Who knows what else is going on with him. He may even fall in love with her someday.
You've said you want to move on, so go already. Leave him alone. A divorce is sort of this final thing, like marriage was supposed to be....
2006-07-27 11:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by DD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is willing to treat his "girlfriend" so badly what makes you think he wont do the same to you if you go back... what you need is a fresh start, even if that means being on your own for a time. give yourself time to get to know yourself and what you want out of life.
2006-07-27 11:38:44 · answer #9 · answered by dosey-rosey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he just wants his cake, and ice cream! Don't get played....don't let him play both sides like that. You shouldn't have to move backwards in life, move forward sweetie. If you are getting a divorce, then get on and move on. Don't let him hang on to you like a leech, cut him free. Stop accepting his calls, don't see him, just steer clear of him. Don't let him cause you anymore hurt.
Just move on baby, believe me, you will be better without him.
2006-07-27 11:33:07 · answer #10 · answered by CTargrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋