My boyfriends best friend is a girl, can they be friends without ever having sexual relations?
2006-07-27 04:16:35 · 51 answers · asked by Marie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course they can. But honestly, if the girl is his best friend, eventually there may be more to their relationship than something platonic.
Wait and watch.
2006-07-27 04:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by DD 3 · 11⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely! My best guy friend and I do not have sex and we have been best friends for almost five years. Of course it is in your right to be jealous. Who isn't when they truely care about the one they are with? But I would take a step back and just let it be. If they never had before there is no reason why they would start now. Besides he may tell her how great and wonderful you are and you might make a new friend in the process. No worries sweetie you'll be find. Good Luck!
2006-07-27 04:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by sweetcaraline_27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, a lot of my friends are guys. I do have to admit that I am sexually attracted to a number of them, but we would never act on it. I have only slept with one good friend. I always had a thing for him in high school, and later found out he felt the same way about me. One day it just happened. He was never a best friend though.
I think you can trust your boyfriend. If you don't, then you should reconsider your relationship, whether it's because his best friend is a girl or not.
2006-07-27 04:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by atari_girl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, they sure can! My best friend is a guy, and we haven't ever had sexual relations. My boyfriend has a girl for a best friend, and they don't have sexual relations either. We both understand each other's best friend, and trust each other enough to know that our best friends are just friends....nothing more.
2006-07-27 04:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by CTargrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think so.
Sometimes over time on the other hand, somethings may become more then just friendship.
Probably platonic, or a relationship may start to grow into the friendship area.
But overall, I would agree with a male being a females best friend
Theres nothing wrong with it, and I have a female friend as well.
2006-07-27 04:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they can. I have a couple of really really good guy friends that nothing has ever happened with them sexually. Unless the girl gives you reason to doubt, like coming on to your boyfriend, asking for sexual favors, I'd just cool my jets if I were you.
2006-07-27 04:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by kibbie01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. That is very much possible I can attest to that. I myself have a guy best friend and that’s just it! I know how you feel, but just be open to your boyfriend about your doubts and how you feel about the situation so that he can assure you that you’re the only special person for him.
2006-07-27 04:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by FaBuLoUsElYwEiRd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. I have several female friends with whom I haven't had a romantic relationship. I also have some with whom I've had romance in the past, but not anymore, and we've stayed friends.
2006-07-27 04:20:21 · answer #8 · answered by jplrvflyer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya they can be friends without any sexual realatins but what do they think about their relationship is important. what u think and i think is not important.
first know ur bf then u decide.
all the best
2006-07-27 04:36:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and no. unless he's not attracted to you at all there won't be any sexual tension but if there's a slight attraction he'll always want to get with you when the timing is right.
2006-07-27 04:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sure
my best friend ive ever had happens to be a gurl and im a guy
and we dont have a sexual relationship
2006-07-27 04:18:27 · answer #11 · answered by big_bro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋