Like, how can you distinguish whether something is a silly hormonal crush, or something more...
2006-07-27 04:12:19 · 20 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
part of maturing mentally is experience learning by mistake or by doing,go with how you feel,write down all you know of your crush,the good the bad the ugly.then just go for it,live and learn,and doing so you become more mature minded than not going for it,,grow from it learn from it.that's what a mature mined individual person does learns from personal experience,theirs some 50 year old out there that don't have mature minds because they refuse to learn and grow from their life
2006-07-27 04:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think people ever really have a fully matured brain. Like, you'll never wake up and think, "My, I'm mature today!" And as for the feeling, it will be a feeling beyond physical attraction and lust. It will be more like that you would die for this person, and even more, that you'd spend the rest of your life with them. It is a feeling of the heart and of the head. The head part is important. Silly hormonal crushes, when they are examined by the head, are exactly that- silly. But something more...is something more. You know as well as feel it.
2006-07-27 04:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by MartyCessna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
crushes and attraction have nothing at all to do with mental maturity. The most mentally adept, mature people can fall for someone in the most ridiculous way. Tis hormones and other stuff I am afraid.
2006-07-27 04:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's something that's really hard to explain. All I know it's all inside you. You will know if it's a silly hormonal crush or the real thing. Maybe it will come with age and wisdom or life experience. But somehow or someway you will know.
2006-07-27 04:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by BrickCity All-Star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know if you are fully matured. As you get older, you become wiser and can more accurately distinguish between what is right and wrong. Wisdom comes with age and experience. Maturity comes with wisdom.
2006-07-27 04:25:14 · answer #5 · answered by ʎǝ1ʇʇnɯ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you can tell that it isn't a crush is when you are around the person all the time, every day and don't ever get tired of thier company. And you can imagine yourself with them for the rest of your life.
Not like the silly I love you forever highschool stuff (no offense highschoolers) but the kind of love that makes you like that persons annoying quirks and habbits, and you can't picture yourself with anyone else.
2006-07-27 04:20:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you ever really grow out of silly hormonal crushes, I still have them and I'm 25!
2006-07-27 04:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it takes at least 1 - 2 years to really know and love someone...sometimes longer.
Anything under that is just infatuation.
As for maturity...some people are never mature. You should at least be living on your own, paying bills...not dependent on guys...be able to support yourself, financially AND emotionally.
2006-07-27 04:15:21 · answer #8 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you no longer see yourself as the centre of the universe but as a mere particle of a big whole that you will never control. when you start caring about health and ageing and figure nothing will ever be the same. also when you understand everything goes round in circles and the only thing that really matters is love.
2006-07-27 04:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by Jorge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an excellent question. I guess one can compare oneself to those who you think are matured like your parents, elders, brothers / sisters etc. I too am still struggling to find what scale I am on on the maturometer!
2006-07-27 04:16:51 · answer #10 · answered by Camellias 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋