ok, so about 3 or 4 years ago, I told this guy i liked him, and he laughed at me. 1 year later , he confesses his undying love for me and i said I still liked him. We liked/loved each other BUT WE NEVER WENT OUT! i got a boyfriend about 1 year later and he was so sad and jealous, i din'tknow if i was doing to right thing. Yes, I was in love with my bf, but I did still like/love the other guy. i don't like him anymore. We broke up and now he's asking me to be his gf. How should I tell him this? Your answer is so important ! Thank you.
2006-07-27 04:10:47 · 22 answers · asked by hotchica90210 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that you got tired of waiting. You have to feel sorry for it because you cannot force yourself to love a person. Remember that you appeared like a fool after he confessed about his love and after that, your status remained undefined. You would naturally get tired of the situation because he left you somewhere in the middle.
But anyway, since you loved him in the past, it would be good to consider him again and see how far the relationship would go. If love reborns, go on with it but if the magic does not work well, there's no point in forcing yourself to be in thi situation.
2006-07-27 04:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what exactly..I want to give you some advice but I got a little confused at the end.
I think you were saying you broke up with your boyfriend and now your long lost love wants you to be with him...I think that's romantic and lovely and I say go for it and see what happens. Sounds like the two of you are a little shy and didn't know exactly how to propel a relationship into existence.
See what happens but take one day at a time. It's really never a good idea to jump into a relationship right after one's ended. Trust me, I know from experience. You might get back with the ex and all sorts of problems may arise.
Be friends and take things slow. Let things progress naturally and whatever's meant to be will be. Don't force anything.
Good luck and I hope he's your soul mate.
2006-07-27 11:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, that did not make any sense to me. First of all, you told a guy that you liked him and he laughed at you. Then, he confessed his undying love to you but never went out w/him even though you still liked him. Why not? Oh, if he confessed his undying love to you then, why did he laugh at you the year before? I believe that he is playing w/you and that you two should not get together b/c that is not right laughing at you and then saying that he loves you. Too confusing.
2006-07-27 11:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
This is simple.
You like a guy, you're single and free. He likes you, he's single and free?
You want to try going out? Fine. Go for it. What's the problem?
Some of you young girls make things far more complicated than they have to be.
If it doesn't work out, you break up.
Or.....you concentrate on other things besides boys and dating and get serious about some type of activity or school.
2006-07-27 11:14:58 · answer #4 · answered by DD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it really casually. If on msn say "Hey maybe we can hang out sometime." If you see him in person, "How about we go on a date you want so much." If I got the question wrong and you want to turn him down. Tell him, "I am flattered you would like to date me but I believe we will be better off as friends." Good luck
2006-07-27 11:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by coolchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. Be kind, but tell him that you no longer care for him in any way but as a good friend. It will be hard to say, and maybe hard for him to hear, but once it's done, you'll be able to work on your friendship, seeing if it can be saved, or if it should be over. Good luck!
2006-07-27 11:13:44 · answer #6 · answered by Mary C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the best thing for you is to just be straight up with him...if he likes/love as you say he will be there for you always when you need him the most....been there done that it was hard at 1st but he was OK with my decision as he saw me happy with my 1 true love....so it is all good..i hope this will help...on that note Tc GB...
2006-07-27 11:17:27 · answer #7 · answered by mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really dont love the friend /love then tell him you have moved on instead of waitin around you cant just sit around and wait for someone to decide when they would like to date ya or decide that now they want ya , gotta live your life and move on
2006-07-27 11:14:45 · answer #8 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a little confused with your last few sentences. you know like who? You broke up with who and who is asking now to be his gf?
2006-07-27 11:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by Dani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tyr to explain frankly
2006-07-27 11:14:05 · answer #10 · answered by sandhu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋