I am a female and I am 24 .
what is going on with me I live with my fiance and he is a very active man but I think i am not any more.
I do have kind of painfull sex once in while. its probably that.
2006-07-27 03:39:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
I am 20 and I Have the EXACT same problem. I just have no interest in sex anymore what so-ever... but my boyfriend still does and it makes me feel bad... I was told by my doctor (who is an idiot) and he said that there's nothing I can do, because I have high levels of stress and there's about 3 other good reasons that my sex drive has stopped.... but he did absolutely nothing.... sooooo apparently there's nothing I can do..but I want to change birth controls (cause I heard that can effect your sex drive a lot) I also have had painful sex with my boyfriend once and awhile and I think sub-consciously that could be causing me not to want sex.. (try talking to your doctor, hopefully yours isn't as stupid and not caring as mine) Good Luck hun~!!!
2006-07-27 03:53:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you experience discomfort during sex, that'll definitely help turn you off of it...check with your doctor to make sure the discomfort isn't being caused by a medical issue that needs to be treated...
You said you think you are not active anymore, but I'm not sure if you mean physically active (as in exercise) or sexually active.
Sometimes we women go through phases that could be hormone changes or just moods, where sex isn't desirable...sometimes when you've been with someone a while and it becomes routine, there's just nothing interesting about it to get excited over...
Get the possible physical issue checked out, and go from there...it may be something easily treatable that'll have you feeling amorous again in no time!
2006-07-27 10:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything that is painful can make you not want to do it anymore.. glad you told you age here makes it easier to answer your question.. talk to your fiance and tell him that when you guys have sex that it hurts. and maybe find some kind of lubercant to help ease this.. there is alot of stuff out there to use for this..
talk to him and let him know what is going on.. that is the first to do in resolving this problem you are having.. communication.....
If you are thinking that you are not attractive any more do something different with the way you dress or the make up that you wear.. try something different so that you feel better about yourself.. change is always good.. makes life more interesting. good luck with your problem.
2006-07-27 10:50:48 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not really sure what is going on with you, but i have the same problem...mine is from antihistamines that i take for my allergies...you should check your diet sometimes that can effect it, low hormone level can cause you to lose your sex drive, sometimes it just happens naturally and for no reason what so ever..there are things you can do to try and get it back...and as for the painful sex occasionally sometimes this is normal, but you may want to consider getting checked for infection or stds or ovarian cysts, because all of those can cause it to be painful sometimes too.
2006-07-27 10:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by MyDreams2Be 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 25 and live with my man, for me my sex drive varies week to week, it is hormones. Now if you go a whole month without any desire then maybe you are not attracted to your man anymore, or you don't feel confidant with yourself enough. Maybe you should consult a doctor about the pain you experience.
2006-07-27 10:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by bopbo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah, being in pain while having sex is a real downer. Have you considered trying to use some sort of lubricant? Or maybe it is the position? Maybe you have to experiment with both of these for a while until you feel comfortable.
2006-07-27 10:45:19 · answer #6 · answered by rb_cubed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every woman goes thru cycles where maybe we just aren't as enthused as we use to be but that passes. However, if you are having painful sex I would talk to be doctor or nurse about that.
2006-07-27 10:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your doctor
2006-07-27 10:43:32 · answer #8 · answered by karo_80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a yeast infection. If you do, it will hurt to have sex.
2006-07-27 10:44:23 · answer #9 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAVE YOU CONSIDERED THE TYPE OF MEDICATION IF ANY THAT YOU ARE TAKING?
2006-07-27 10:42:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋