What would you do?

Question

i have been seeing this guy on and off since i was 15 i am 21 now, and we recently started"seeing" each other again, he tells me he loves me and i really love him, but how do i get him to commit to more than that. with out pushing him away?

Answer 1

You can't make someone commit.. they either have it in their heart to dedicate themselves to your relationship or they don't... trying to force him to commit will only lead to him eventually feeling trapped.. if he gives in in the first place... I say give it and him time and see how it goes... if it is meant to be you will be together if not then there is another man out there for you that will be what you want and need.