how can i conquer my fear of talking to girls in person?

Question

i get reli nervous when i talk to girls in person. wot shud i say or do 2 conquer my fears and help me?

Answer 1

all youve got to do is be yourself.if you have a sister thats old enough to understand that you need help,ask her to help with this practice on her.I just conquered my fears of talking to guys in person.First,talk to girls on the phonethen get to talking in person.try to talk about what both of yall like.thatll help out alot.like with me,sence i like football so thats how i got used to it.just talk about fav. songs yall both like movies or just any little thing.hope i can help you.If u need 2 talk email or im me at [e-mail]
and dont worry about the name.

Answer 2

Nothing gives a person confidence like experience. My advice is to work up your courage and go speak to them -- as many as you can. Talk with them about anything and everything. Sure, sometimes you will crash and burn. Sometimes, you will go up to a woman and be as nice and charming as you can be and they will treat you like crap. There is, sadly, nothing you can do about that. However, sometimes you will meet nice people. Whether it turns into romance is largely a matter of timing, chemistry and luck.

Dating sucks, believe me, I know this from years of experience before I met my wife. If you want to find love, and we all do, you just have to keep on trying. Think about baseball players -- A ball player who hits .300 is considered terrific, but that means he only gets a hit every 3 out of 10 times. If you think about it, that same player misses the other 7 times. You can't let fear of rejection paralyze you socially, especially considering you will get rejected some of the time. I know, as the Doors sang "women seem wicked when you're unwanted," but you have to keep trying anyway.

As far as what you should say, just be yourself (plus maybe a little more confident). Be direct. Look them in the eye when you talk. Try to be as charming as you can and be interested in what the woman has to say. If she likes you, fantastic. If she doesn't, it is her loss -- move onto the next one.

Answer 3

well you have to learn how to let loose, and let them see what's behind all the shyness, always make eye contact when talking, they'll think you're confident and there's nothing sexier than a confident guy, but not cocky ya know? also make gestures and loosen up, when you talk to her move your hands a little like you're trying to talk with your hands but not too much like if you're trying to make a point then make a gesture, also smile, always smile, that lets them know that you are really interested and that you can also be interesting when you're not frowning, which leads me to...DON"T MUMBLE!!! never mumble that will make her think that you're not fun if you act gloomy. Keep your hands out of your pockets, enough said, don't talk to her with stains on your clothes or your hair an absolute mess, that will 1. make her think you're a slob and she most likely won't waste her time on you, 2. you're not confident in yourself to at least look presentable when you try to talk to her. Don't show off it will make her think you're a cocky stuck up guy who will always try to show her up. Also, if she smiles when you're talking then that's always a good sign, nod your head every once in a while to let her know you're listening to her and hearing what she says (most guys let the words go in one ear and out the other) When you're done talking to her, offer to give her a little hug, usually girls do go for the hug and thats it, if she hugs you back awesome, if she talks while you give her a hug the cool if she doesn't anything and then walks away you lost her, well yep thats all i have to say and that's my cue to exit lol check ya later ♥

Answer 4

As stupid as this sounds it's Practice Practice Practice.

even if you have to rehearse a little before hand, don't make it complicated a simple Hello, or do you have the time, make your encounters brief, Smile and move on, each time things will be easier and you can add more to what you say.

Good Luck.

and most girls don't bite.

Answer 5

Holy **** man just join the rest of the male population. We are all afraid to tell girls how we feel. Everyone hates rejection. Thats why there is alcohol. If you can just get drunk then talk to her you are good if not then just do it. If you never talk to her than you will never be with her. If you talk to hr and she says no well then just tell everyone she has herpes but if she says yes than your golden.

Answer 6

women like men with confidence. Just be yourself and practice on the ones you are not interested in. Some will reject you. but the more you get rejected the thicker your skin will become thicker. Practice practice practice being yourself

Answer 7

Start talking to girls in general...not just the ones you like...once you are comfortable with them move on to the ones you like. Also if you have any friends that are girls...ask them.

Answer 8

Start with that line the next tym you chat with a girl.
Tell her you're nervous and it's bcos you respect her.Tell her evrytin you feel towards her.It worked for me.

Answer 9

take them head on to conquer fears and keep doing then it would become natural

Answer 10

just do it as many times as you can. talk to girls with no reason at all. at first you'll feel scared and most likely will look stupid but the more you try and overcome yourself the better you'll get