um.......... i have asked this question now this will be the third time i have a friend who hates my boyfriend and i dont know wat to do i told her that my boyfriend was my buisness wat do u think.
2006-07-27 03:01:06 · 6 answers · asked by loganlovesgod 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and forgot to put it in she has been rude l8tly and need help with that to.
2006-07-27 03:16:01 · update #1
Its ok if your friend hates your boyfriend. Its her own opinion if she doesn't like him. Maybe that's the sign that something is wrong with him?
2006-07-27 03:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by NOVA50 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well...ummm what does he think of her? does he hate her as well? if so then you may want to reconsider the relationship. in my last relationship both my best friend and partner did not like each other and that drove me and my friend away. Me and my friend are just now patching things up. Friends should be your friends no matter what but sometimes they just can't get over certain things. You have to decide who is more important to you your friend or your boyfriend? If your boyfriend has no problem with your friend though, ask your friend what they don't like about him. there may be more here than meets the eye. hope this helps
2006-07-27 10:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by hekitaimao 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are there good reasons for it? Does she see something you do not, does he treat you well. If he treats you well, and loves you than yes hes your business and she needs to back off. Tell her that if she continues to push the issue that she may be jepordizing your guys friendship. If he is not always nice to you, and if she has reason to be concerned about you because of things he may be doing, then you, as her friend, need to give her the time to explain that to you, sometimes people outside the realtionship can see things alot more clearly than those in the relationship.
2006-07-27 10:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well friends generally care for you much more than you think...they are also a little more objective than you are. You're infatuated with a guy, and can't see any problems with him.
Talk to your friend (I'm sure you have)...why does she hate your bf? Surely she has a reason. Think about it.
2006-07-27 10:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must think who is more important to u and if u think that its ur boyfriend tell ur friend that she must accept him for him and leave the two of you alone and if it is your friend then she might just be trying to protect u from something that she knows or she might be jellous so the main thing is what do u want
2006-07-27 10:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by Gary A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's your friend, she will keep hurtful opinions to herself and support & respect you for making your own decisions.
That's the best thing about friends.... they love and accept you no matter what! And if they're best friends.... they won't share your 'no matter whats' with anyone else!
2006-07-27 10:06:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋