I have 2 stepdaughters 15 and 18 yo. Older one dates or at least sees Black men. The 15 yo I found out is interested in this also. I'm not a racist or biased in any way. I have seen mixed couples (black men & white girls) much more than ever before. Do the white girls find them more and want to be with them? Sex plays a big part of it also. Trying to understand is all.
2006-07-27 02:56:10 · 7 answers · asked by Robert M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why don't you just ask your daughters?
2006-07-27 02:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by barbaradjt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my daughter was17 and started to do the say thing. i am like you and not racist or biased either. i feel that sociaty has excepted it more but that there is still a lot of the old ways out there. i feel that a lot of it is seeing how parents will react. also maybe the mystery? mostly my daughter and my husband (her stepdad) did have a some problems. she needed a dad to not just say I love you all the time but to spend time with just her in some of her interests like a movie or taking her out for an icecream. she needed a buddy in a dad when she became a teen. she decided not to dated the young man. but later she did move to Pa with her father and is farther away (in a relationship) that what was with my husband. she still struggles with dating.
2006-07-27 03:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by cathy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is black he is educated , loving a good provider and treats me like a queen.I think it has alot to do with whats cool and the hip hop music for teens!music is a big influence on younger people.
2006-07-27 03:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by aquaris01975 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL SEX PLAYS A BIG ROLE IN ANY RELATIONSHIP WHETHER BLACK, WHITE, ASIAN, OR HISPANIC. MAYBE THAT'S JUST THEIR PERSONAL PREFERENCE. IT'S REALLY NOT A BIG DEAL AS LONG AS THE MEN TREAT YOUR DAUGHTERS WITH RESPECT, THAT'S ALL THAT SHOULD MATTER.
2006-07-27 03:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by shi shi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has a preference, they prefer men of color, as do i. my dad has a real problem accepting it, so i don't bring my boyfriends around him when i visit. you have to respect their decisions in who they choose to date. an sex really isn't that big of a part in it. they could just as easy find a white guy for sex.
2006-07-27 03:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There use to be a time where the different races where forbidden to mingle with each other and now that it is more common it may just be curiosity.
2006-07-27 03:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by American Pride 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
black men are bigger. obvoiusly your step daughters like it with a little bit of taboo as well.
2006-07-27 03:02:56 · answer #7 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋