Would be in-appropriate and how would you feel if you were shopping in a department store and an employee walked up to you and started to flirt with you and asked you for your phone number? What would be the best things for him to say? What would be the worst things for him to say?
The reason I ask is I always see women in the store where i would that I would like to talk to and see if they would be interested in getting to know each other but I am afraid that some women may find it to be un-acceptable for an employee to do this.
2006-07-27 02:55:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awwww! since u work in a store, walk up to her (casually and SMILE) and ask her if she needs help looking for anything....and if she says 'no thanks, i'm just looking,' tell her that if she needs any asistance, that you'll be more than happy to help her.
i'd like it if a guy walked up to me and started talking to me in a store...i don't see anything wrong with that guy being a store emplyee...at least i'd know that he has a job and isn't at home being lazy.
hope it works out.
2006-07-27 03:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends. I'm married and so I'd never go out with another man, but if I weren't married it would depend on the person. If an employee was flirting with me I would be flattered and it would make me feel good about myself so that I don't see as a problem. If I liked the guy I would flirt back and if the employee were to get that kind of reciprocation than he should feel comfortable enough to ask me out. Now, if I didn't flirt back than he would know not to pursue it.
I think that being a department store that kind of behavior would fine. But as far as a professional place such as a Dr.s office or other official places of business it would be completely unacceptable. It may be a double standard but it works for me.
2006-07-27 03:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that would be a good idea. Not that it's a "bad" thing to do and some women may be flattered, but why take the chance of one of them "going off" and talking with your manager? You could get fired for something like that. If you were in a store shopping yourself I could see it. You would have nothing to loose, but at your job... Just consider them "eye candy" and finish your work....
2006-07-27 03:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by divaxl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be aggressive. Gently walk over with a big smile and start a conversation. Don't try to sell them something. Don't say something stupid like, "Hi Beautiful!". Don't stare at body parts. Never say something sexual. You will be able to tell by their response to you if they are interested. Each time the come in the store show more interest. Eventually, they might be approachable for a date.
2006-07-27 03:01:46 · answer #4 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are saying.
As long as you remember that chicks at a store are customers as well.
Remember not to get into an argument with a customer because you might win the argument but lose the job.
All the same, as a male, it is your birthright duty to chase girls; after all why are girls for? to be chased by males.
Just watch what you do and keep a skeptical cautious mind and youll be OK.
Tell me how it goes.
Cheers !
2006-07-27 03:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by namaste_achha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Subtlety (sp?) would be the key in this case. You don't want to freak the women out and you certainly don't want them to tell your boss (they'll flip their lids fo sho!)
Offer to help, make yourself available and don't pour it on too strong. If you can tell she's lingering over something that she's not sure about and you think it would look nice on her-tell her. Other men think that crap is corny but us chicks dig men who pay us compliments...especially if you tell her something like the color would go well with her tan or the cut of the jeans would look great on a body like hers, etc,etc.
Keep it general and stay cool...desperation = turnoff.
It'll happen eventually. Good luck
2006-07-27 03:06:06 · answer #6 · answered by southrngirl2724 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might scare some of them away or get yourself reported to your boss.
When a woman is shopping, she doesn't want to be distracted by someone trying to make time. If you want to find out in conversation where someone hangs out, that is one thing, but asking for dates is asking for trouble.
2006-07-27 02:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by Nosy Parker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come up to them and ask them if they want help.if they say yes, either they do need help,or they think ur cute and are letting u help them.either way strike up a conversation while u help them find whatever theyre looking for.then maybe ask for theyre phone number depending on how the conversation went.good luck!
2006-07-27 02:59:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to tell if she is interested by passively flirting. Read their response and maybe tell a little joke or something ease your way in there find out if she is available first...read her body language and don't disrespect.
2006-07-27 03:01:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just walk out of the store.
2006-07-27 02:59:28 · answer #10 · answered by Kelsey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋