I confessed to the 1 i think i love by writing.I thought that he loved me 2 as his actions betrayed him.He treated me differently n uttered "i love u",to me.I've done every background work on him.I n him belong to a gang of friends.I asked them to confirm whether he had a thing for me.They agreed.Exams 2 enter Uni r near n i wanted to make things better 4 the both of us.So,I told him everything from deep down.Everything.I told him how i was suffering n stuff.He let almost the whole class read it like newspaper.He replied that it was all a misunderstanding.How was i 2 react?!I chose 2 believe n move on.I wrote him a 2nd letter 2 tell him sorry 4 all the misunderstandings n stuff.I said sorry.Again,he let the same ppl read it.It's like 2 different ppl.It seems not long ago that he wanted me so badly n when i wanted to make things clear,he reacted like this.I'm disappointed in him.I risked my pride 4 the both of us.Why can't he b a gentleman?Whereas i was the 1 vif a big heart.i 4gave him
2006-07-27 02:47:53 · 10 answers · asked by lost 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I forgave him. But he won't be in my friends' list. I don't wanna take revenge.I might be the one receiving it. I kept my cool but there r time when i feel down. Actually i hate him now. Was i wise in this?
2006-07-27 02:58:59 · update #1
Sorry, he let you down. we are not all like that.
2006-07-27 02:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by TOO HOT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a big heart ain't got nothing to do w/it.. Let's be smart here.. 1st of all why leave any proof of what ur saying or going through in his hands??? why r u apologizing for his actions?? there was no misunderstanding, he played u... Darlin i'm sure people told u before that guys tell u what u want to here all the time to gain ur trust... and stop letting everybody in on ur business, stop approaching other people asking them if he got a thing for u cause the only one that knows that is him and they will lie for their friend to...
learn from ur mistake and move on....
2006-07-27 09:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you deserve better than him. It is good to find this out now and not later. Move on and show him you can be happy without him, then I bet he will come running with his arms open. But if he does dont give him the time. He pushed you away. Dont take him back, he will only do it again to you and it will really hurt then. Good luck
Move on to someone that deserves you and you deserve him.
2006-07-27 09:53:36 · answer #3 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, it's time to stop being so damn trusting. You act like you don't care and a man is drawn to you, go for him, he runs away. OK, and you never, never, never, let someone into your heart unless you are absolutely sure they are worth it. Protect your heart like the wind will hurt it. But, girl, we have all made this mistake, it's OK. Just learn from it!
2006-07-27 10:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably has sumtin to prove to his friends or the pple he's bin giving the letters 2 2 read.
Try and forgive him but let him know you don't lyk it and let him promise you it'll never happen again.
Be sure he really loves you though, let him tell you how he feels.
2006-07-27 09:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by Deejay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously a stupid bloke who is more worried about looking good and feeling big in front of other people than about your feelings and blokes like that are not even worth the time of day!
You should put your time and energy in to someone who makes you feel good about yourself.
In other words.. Sod him!!!
2006-07-27 09:54:08 · answer #6 · answered by Denumz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just used you to get what he wanted,put some itching powder in his underwear and try not to be too disappointed in the immature,selfish little boy.People can really suck sometimes,but you gotta move on.
2006-07-27 09:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by kents411 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a total asshole-forget him & move on-you deserve someone so much better than this excuse for a human being.
2006-07-27 09:52:30 · answer #8 · answered by butterfly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a loser to me i wouldnt put up with that at all get rid of him and find a guy that will be honest and faithfull.
2006-07-27 09:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its time to stop forgiving him and go on with your life and find someone else.
2006-07-27 09:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋