Every time that I want to tell my frustration to my parents there is always a fight.Thay never heard me out before,thay always think they are right and i'm irresponsible.
2006-07-27 02:45:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I totally understand. I had parents like that. It got to the point that I eventually stopped talking to them about personal things. I found a close adult friend that I can talk to. I'm sorry to say, but your parents will probably never change. However, you do need to let your frustrations out. Find an older adult you can talk to. Aunt, Uncle, Grandmother of older friend. It helps alot..good luck
2006-07-27 02:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by Boricua Chic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a mother of 4 ages 21 18 12 10 I under stand your plight,But the thing is you can not get by with any thing b/c i am sure what you are doing your parents have already done.We have many miles on us and do KNOW MORE than you think.
2006-07-27 02:51:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you proven yourself to ever be responsible? Do you save money for the things you want? Do you do your chores, or whatever needs doing around the house without being asked? Do you say your going to do something and actually do it?
These are the traits of a responsible person.
Start showing them that you are a responsible person by actions first, and then try words later. You'll then have a lot more good points to make in your discussion.
2006-07-27 02:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by classyjazzcreations 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents have this uncontrolable need to run their kids life. It's like integrated into their DNA or something. I think that parents think because they were children once, they think that everything will blow over and think you're being overdramatic. sorry to say it, but It'll never change, so you just have to deal with it like the rest of us.
2006-07-27 05:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by Stoney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have teens, and I always try to listen. But in the event I can't they have started writting me notes and leaving them for me.
Try writting a note and see how that works for you. It has really helped us.
Good Luck !
2006-07-27 04:02:09 · answer #5 · answered by american_angel068 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because regardless of what u say, they think they're always right. u just gotta let them be who they are. you cant teach an old dog new tricks.
2006-07-27 03:36:33 · answer #6 · answered by blackqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋