i met this guy about a month ago he is a great guy he makes me feel like a kid again. but he just dropped a complete bomb shell on me yesterday, he told me he is married and has been for 3 years. but he is saying that he is very unhappy she is not there for him nor does she please him in the bed room. but i know that he is not telling the truth more than likely. but then again maybe he is. but i dont know what to do so someone please help me i need some good advise. what would you do???????? HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!
2006-07-27 02:45:13 · 13 answers · asked by poohbear25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Run like the wind & dont look back
2006-07-27 02:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by butterfly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't wait too, too long to tell you; it could've been worse. He told you because he is feeling very strongly about you. I think if he says that he's unhappy, then he really is, and they both are. Men don't admit that very easily because it sounds like failure. Watch your heart, and since he has been open with you about being married now, ask him what he's doing with you. Why does he want to see you? What does he want to do about his marriage and when? Both of my uncles married their extra-marital relationship girlfriends, and both are really good men, so it is NEVER impossible to have a happy ending to something like this; and NO neither of them have strayed on their fabulous 2nd wives!! That's a load of CRAP! Beware of the other responses that you are going to get on here; a lot of women get really angry when they read about a man having another relationship, but if it's not pathological (a pattern), then there is a problem in the marriage that caused him to be drawn to you....and that's good for you (and for him...to have you). Good luck!
2006-07-27 02:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fool with this guy!!! Almost all married man says that to make you fall, experience is talking. At the end you'll be hurt, and just the fact he is talking that way about Hus wife is not fair, how can you know? may be he is mean to her, or what if he is a lovely husband? you don't need that, and if you get involved with him, you'll be hurting a woman's feeling and yourself. Just keep him as a friend, I know is hard, specially if you really like him, but trust me, is very painful to love some one that don't belong to you completely....
2006-07-27 03:10:18 · answer #3 · answered by me at yahoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would leave this guy alone and let deal with his problems. He kept some really important information from you and I feel that honestly is essential in a relationship. You're better off without him. Besides him lying, I wouldn't even want to stick around and get caught up in his drama.
2006-07-27 02:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah. so this guy has been basically cheating on his whife?! wtf! okay. so youve known this guy for about a month, and he makes you feel great. like a kid again. thats wonderful. but, hes basically CHEATING! on his spouce. and if hes tellin you that hes cheating... i dont care about the details of why. hes is cheating.
now here is what you shold do. first look at the guy. and say okay, hes cheatin on his whife. 3 years of marrage. if hes willing to cheat on his whife. dosent that make him liyable to cheet on you! yes, so if i were you i would break up before its too late. because now, your held responsable. hes told you and now you can
A) stay. and prolly be cheated on later or,
B) go and pray for his whife.
your move, id say a.
hope you make the right decition.
2006-07-27 02:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by mcdswimr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheat always a cheat If he cheats on his wife or even leaves his wife for you what do you think hes going to do to you.Cut it off now and run like hell.You deserve better than that
2006-07-27 02:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the relatenship. What if he has kids?! If he didn't think to mention this before why would he think to tell you if he has children. Plus do you really want to be "the other woman"? Walk away.
2006-07-27 02:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by Toni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like to destroy the family?
I think not so you have to tell him honestly that you cant do that with a family and if he is not happy he must do anything to make his life happy so if he cannot live with his wife he must get the divorce and then look to another, he must not cheated on her and his family.
do u like your husband in future to do this with you? i think not.
good luck
2006-07-27 02:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from him married guys are like that first they complaint about they wives ans then when they have sex with you they back with them so be carefully guys are full of lie
2006-07-27 02:54:59 · answer #9 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave and don't look back. Maybe if he was honest at first, and you could make an informed decision, it would be different, but.....he didn't.
2006-07-27 02:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋