we had been friends for 7years prior to us dating and we dated for almost a year before we broke up but the reason that we broke up is bcause of my parents they really didnt like him all that much but they really didnt give a fair chance eaither just they think he is not cute enogh for me but he is so sweet its gotten so bad that they wont even let me talk to him on the phone so i have been sneaking phone calls to him through friends but last night i talked to him myself and he still wants to be with me and i still want to be with him and he wants to get married someday but my parents are standing in the way and i am 18 and he is 20 and i want to be with sooo bad we were so happy till my parents got involed please help
2006-07-27 02:37:50 · 18 answers · asked by Lonely18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes i think so
2006-07-27 02:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 18? How do your parents have a say in who you date then? If you are happy with this guy be with him dont let your parents ruin something good for you.. Your parents will come around when they see how happy you are with him... Maybe you should get your own place if your parents are so controlling at 18!
2006-07-27 02:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by Meriah C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes-your parents have no say in your life-you are 18 years old and are responsible for your own decisions. You will end up hating yourself & your parents if you do not take this chance of hapiness-you only live once....go get him-he could be your soulmate
2006-07-27 02:44:39 · answer #3 · answered by butterfly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really do like him so much, yeah, why not? Get your man back. Then you have gotta convince your parents that u are truly happy with this guy. (ultimately, parents will be happy as long as their daughter or children are happy.) of coz, it may take a long time to prove to them u are happy with this guy. so juz hang in there and dun give up.
All the best!
2006-07-27 02:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by Mint_Always 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, let him go, he deserves someone better than you. hes not cute enough? you'll end up cheating on him with some cute but not as sweet guy in like 6 months. you say your 18, be an adult and stop jerkin the poor guy around, you sick twisted witch with a capital B
2006-07-27 02:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by Spellcaster97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold on everyone, she has a point. but girl if ur parents allow u to date and have no problem with u doing so... then stand up for ur self. sit them down and ask them y they dont like him and - u have to see their points of veiw- they have a good reason think abt it, but if it is really cuz he aint cute then stand up for ur self, but be respectful , cuz they r ur parents and they brought u into this world and they can take u out of it.good luck love
2006-07-27 02:50:57 · answer #6 · answered by baby gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I quit reading your question after I read the part about they think he is not cute enough for you. If that is true well they are so shallow. sorry but thats sad. If you like him and he is nice to you and he likes you then I would go out with him.I do think you are bit young for marriage but the rest is fine, dont listen to any one who tells you someone isn't cute enough that's just plain stupid,
2006-07-27 02:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie youre 18 - thus legally old enough to make your own decisions and look ok - parents I know can be a pain in the backside but generally they only want whats best for their kids and to see them happy.
Maybe you could approach your parents and explain that he makes you feel special and you really love him, and why cant they accept it and let you live your life?
If they STILL refuse - threaten to cut ties with them and move out.
If they love you - the'll renigade and leave you two be,
2006-07-27 02:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say your boyfriend to prove himself in front of ur parents because if he really loves you he will succeed. Try to talk with your parents on this matter and convince them all about your feelings about your boyfriend.
2006-07-27 02:45:04 · answer #9 · answered by ati 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is cute enough the only reason? I think there is more you are not telling us. If there is some good reason for your parent's objection listen to them.
2006-07-27 02:43:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you think is good but parents are alway right so think before doing anything and in time you will know that your parents were right it your life so do what you want to
2006-07-27 02:44:05 · answer #11 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋