generally all round nice gal- people only tend to want to lie or cheat on me, the question is why?
2006-07-27 02:37:31 · 20 answers · asked by body2diephwoar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe you get treated how you ALLOW others to treat you...don't put up with it - I've had pretty much the same and had completely reached the end of my tether with men and have been properly single for the last 6 months. It's done me the world of good - I've focused on myself, given up smoking, changed job and moved to a different town to be nearer my friends. In all this my self esteem has grown and grown and I know I've reached the point where I just know I won't be second best or play second fiddle to anyone ever again - I'd rather be single cos I've been having a great time and no loser will come along and spoil it for me! That's the stage you should get to - have some time out for yourself, build-up your self esteem and don't put up with w**kers anymore...true love is out there, you just have to believe you deserve it...
2006-07-27 02:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by long_luscious_lashes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
True love is a perception that you have been socialised into. If you look at other couples and wish you were like them,you tend to base your expectations through their eyes. To find true love find yourself and redefine your our expectations. This way when you meet someone you like .the relationship will develop on an even keel and respect will grow.
2006-07-27 09:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking. True love will find you when you are ready. Obviously you are putting off a vibe towards these guys that you need to fix. You need to love yourself more and not put up with losers in your life. Stand up and get strong. Know yourself and depend on you alone. Then your true love will find you, because only then will you know what you really need in a man.
2006-07-27 09:43:04 · answer #3 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true love is not hard to find, altho people may find it hard to wait...
first of all, people find love very easily, that is the first step..once love has been built between two people, then you will have the foundation for true love, which is established when the two people have gone through alot (both happy and sad moments), and have started feeling comfortable with each other (like not hiding anything and sharing everything).
i personally have been with my boyfriend for four years...in the first two years or so, i didnt know what true love was altho i knew
i loved him.
but then 2 years ago, i started to suffer a serious and long-term illness, then i started to feel that we truely love each other: not only i became very much dependent on him emotionally, that was also the first time i saw him cry, and he said he would give up everything (his job and his study) to take care of me. altho i was sad, he made me know wot true love really is.
conclusion: just give it time...true love will come one day..good luck!
2006-07-27 10:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by Taxi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People only lie or cheat if you let them or if your desperate and you cant read the signs, you know yourself if someone taking advantage, listen to your insitcks and dont put up with bull. Plenty of people out there happy to share love.
2006-07-27 09:52:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you may be looking in the wrong places. And you may be defining "love" in the wrong way. First figure out what you mean by "true love". What does it mean to you? Then look at where you go to find it and whether that is the right place to find that kind of love.
If you are looking for a one night stand, you aren't going to find it in a church, and if you are looking for a lifetime commitment, you aren't going to find it in a bar or dance club.
2006-07-27 09:49:16 · answer #6 · answered by Butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try associating with people who don't want to lie and cheat on you. Won't eliminate the risk entirely, nothing can, but it could reduce it considerably.
2006-07-27 09:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by Dick s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been told that I'm quite a prize to be had from a woman's point of view yet I don't see the masses throwing themselves at my feet. It's probably my shy and reserved nature. C'est la vie.
2006-07-27 09:42:20 · answer #8 · answered by Deleted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be stronger in yourself and set ground rules very early on about what you will and WON'T put up with.....
Generally if people think that they can take a loan of you then they WILL!!!
2006-07-27 09:45:09 · answer #9 · answered by normantrousdale@btinternet.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally don't believe in true love - look for a soul mate instead!!
2006-07-27 09:41:03 · answer #10 · answered by sammi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋