I don't think about sex alot. If a guy does and I don't, naturally we don't get along. What should I do? I need help.
2006-07-27 02:28:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did I mention I was 18? Am I pathetic or what?
2006-07-27 02:35:22 · update #1
just make sure that you dont have sex until you are ready. if they love you they should understand and respect it.
2006-07-27 02:33:15 · answer #1 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 9⤊ 1⤋
men use intimacy to get sex
women use sex to get intimacy
sex is an animal instinct in both sexes, however like suggested above the motives for sex can differ greatly. most men peak in their sexual desire from late puberty though about twenty (hormones i would suspect). women don't usually get there till there mid to late twenties (generally speaking) so timing is screwin ya over too !!!
if u r over 17 but under say 22 then possibly choose a man who is older than you by 5 to 9 years. (you'll make his day!!)
if u r in your mid to late twenties or older and you don't like sex enough to think of it often or in a desirable manner (u should crave it at this age in the absence of regular intercourse or fulfilling masturbation) this may be a real problem with either psychological and or physiological cause(s) . talk to a professional about the matter in detail (seek answers from pro.s not "yahoo" if u fit this scenario)
good luck,
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2006-07-27 09:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by smirkubus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that's not something you are into quite yet... how old are you??? Maybe you could use the excuse that you want to be a little bit older before you start thinking about that kind of thing... it's a big deal, wait for the right person. I promise it's worth it.
2006-07-27 09:31:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the reason not to think about sex? this is a natural part of our relations. if you tell me the reason I may answer you:)
2006-07-27 09:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by diana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep doing what you are doing. The right guy will come along
2006-07-27 09:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by j t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOst likely you are not ready for sex...Don't have to blame yourself as it will take sometimes to have it. But, you will have problems with your partner in the future.
2006-07-27 09:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by pn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all ask yourself if you are really happy with your life. i might ask u as well, how young are you?,i guess you are able to know whow your sex life is all about.Please its time to get along with our sex life!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nice time.
2006-07-27 09:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by MELLISA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend you think about it a lot.
2006-07-27 09:31:27 · answer #8 · answered by Mountaineer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋