My 62 yr old boyfriend has a sex drive of a 30 yr old. Now don't get me wrong I love him and I love having sex w/him, but we are not teenagers and in this point in our lives we are suppose to be enjoying life, not just sex. Am I wrong for feeling this way?
2006-07-27 02:26:26 · 6 answers · asked by katherine t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The fact that the two of you have very different ideas about what you should be doing at that age is a sign that you need to communicate very clearly with him about what you want & need. The old adage about "if you don't use it you lose it" holds true - you gotta keep the juices flowing in order to keep going. No, you're not teenagers; but there's nothing wrong with a very healthy sex drive either. Teens aren't the only ones who have them; but you really need to talk to him before your feelings begin to come out in a negative way & it causes a rift between the two of you. Good luck & enjoy what you have!!
2006-07-27 02:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that IS his way of enjoying life. He finally gets to have sex without worrying about getting the girl pregnant (if you are around the same age) and there's little chance of getting an STD. If you're not in the mood though, you're not in the mood, and he shouldn't be nagging you to do things you've already told him you don't want to. If he persists in nagging you, you may just have to find someone else.
2006-07-27 09:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think alot of women in that age bracket would love to still have a happy fufilling sex life.You can still enjoy life and have great sex too. I think its great he can't get enough of you. Good luck:)
2006-07-27 09:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by aquaris01975 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what you think you should be doing by society's standards. If you guys do it all the time and love it, then go for it! :) That said, if you don't like doing it so much, tell him. Sex should be pleasurable, not a chore.
2006-07-27 09:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the best part of a relationship, try having a chat with him.
For all I know, he may even be trying to please you by doing that and he may not.
Just try having a chat with him.
2006-07-27 09:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by Deejay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You should tell him about your thoughts.
2006-07-27 09:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by TL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋