We've been together for almost three months, but it was instant that we knew we were to be together when we met, and that's what he said, but he doesn't say the three words, and I want to but don't want to be rejected by him not telling me back.
2006-07-27 01:58:15 · 14 answers · asked by mariajd3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You bf and I have one thing in common, and I guess you know what it is now. Some people don't say it but they by every possible means show it (which is far better). However, if you must hear it you be prepared for the price.
If he has to say it, he will start to be cautious of whatever he does and that secretly and slowly kills true love. If you are both sure you are for each other then let the sleeping dog lie.
You don't have to say you love him, you only need to start conversations in relation to where and how you both intend to settle down e.g. 'Sam' where would you like us to live when we marry? No 'I LOVE YOU' is greater than his genuine response.
Good luck.
2006-07-27 02:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by Sage_Learner 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How well do you know her? Did you know her for awhile before dating her? 3 months is not a long time if you just met her 3 months ago and if I were her, I'd wonder how you could be in love with someone that you are just getting to know. You can love things about her but the L word should not be thrown out there too soon imo. Just tell her things that you love about her (be specific).
2016-03-27 01:11:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my fiancee in September of 2005, and we started our relationship by being friends who would talk on the phone for hours about everything, getting to know each other. About a month later, when we knew we were falling in love with one another, thats when those 3 little words first came out.
2006-07-27 02:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by carrie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel it, say it.
I knew I loved my bf within a couple months. I waited until he told me first, because I was scared that he would feel pressured. I did not want to make him say it. But as soon as he told me, I could honestly say it back. I don't think I could have waited much longer (we had been together almost 3 months when we said it).
But you can't ignore your heart. Tell him if you really truely mean it. You will feel better.
2006-07-27 02:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by agentm006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that 3 months is still a short period of time to really know if you love someone.
Don't say you love him first... you might scare him (some guys thinks saying those 3 words is already commitment and he might not be ready the way you want it)
Give it some more time.
2006-07-27 02:05:25 · answer #5 · answered by Zail-Em 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me? that's to early! Wait until it really means something.People say it to much, and has really lost it's meaning.You can tell him you love everything about him.That's not saying I love you.And don't expect him to say he loves you too.when he's ready he will tell you.But don't force it.You will seem desperate.
2006-07-27 02:06:40 · answer #6 · answered by ronchoward 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no time limit if you feel that way about someone Tell them you cant stop how you feel or how your feeling work.
2006-07-27 03:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by brneyes7190 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months is way too soon...you will know when the time is right!
2006-07-27 02:01:42 · answer #8 · answered by Jenifer D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a matter of waiting as long as you feel it
2006-07-27 02:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no time limit ....but too say i love you to someone you have to really fell it if not then you shouldnt say ..
2006-07-27 02:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by Melanie<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋