2006-07-27 01:52:32 · 19 answers · asked by diana 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
if he pays attention to you and listens to what you have to say. If he doesn't mind helping you and respects you and your decisions and your likes and dislikes. when he talks to you like a normal human being and doesnt have a bad tone of voice w/ you or yells at you. when he really likes to be w/ you and doesnt blow you off, or not call. When he looks forward to being w/ you and doesn't just wnat to be around you for sex. when he looks at you w/ lil' hearts in his eyes. thats when you know its for real and that he's serious.
Otherwise you're just a piece of *** and he doesnt care about you and is just using you. Dont waste your time then. I know its hard, even though you may like him, it's not worth wasting your time if he doesnt have the same feelings for you.
2006-07-27 03:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mollerina 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The real question is do you want to be serious with this man? Here's a few things to think about. Have you met his family? Been to his aparment or living quaters? How does he address you in front of his friends? Does he discuss having a future with you ?
Better yet why don't you just ask him if he is or not?
2006-07-27 08:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he calls you when he says he is going to call you, he is serious.
I live in Canada and a guy I had met, who lives half an hour from where I live, called from California on business when he said he would and flew in when he said he would. We went out for dinner and he went home then flew back to California. All within two weeks. No sex yet either. We ended up dating for seven months. I called it off because he eventually wanted to get married.
If he calls you before he says he is going to, that is good too!
Mistakes can happen or misunderstandings, but if they are consistent mistakes, then you should beware of a guy that is either undependable or in another relationship.
2006-07-27 09:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by peppermint_paddy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell? Does he joke a lot, and you don't know when he's joking and when he's not?! if that's the case, the truth lies in his sarcasm, and for the most part he's always joking--you'll KNOW when he's serious!! If you mean about you? The best way is to ask him where you stand...ask him if he wants to be exclusive....or if you can still play the field..
2006-07-27 08:57:13 · answer #4 · answered by jakkibluu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask the question he is probably not. If he is serious about you there are a lot of ways he will show it. You will just know.
2006-07-27 09:28:30 · answer #5 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way he talks, he acts, he jokes. If he is really serious then he will start flirting a lot and hold hands , he will also talk about atractive things not about cars (unless u like them) or other girls or ex-.
2006-07-27 10:33:23 · answer #6 · answered by Fadi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust him or don't trust him. Up to you. I'd let him dangle a bit. Don't let the guy into your bed for a few months. If he stays with you he's probably serious
2006-07-27 08:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by Obilee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every man is represented by his speech ,by his actions ,by his gestures ,by his knowledge ,by his principles and above all his trustworthiness.When you spend some time with him you will realized the nature of the man from his behavior.
2006-07-27 09:18:17 · answer #8 · answered by shri 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has he written you a "love letter" yet? Or been especially romantic? That is a good indicator he is serious; when he shows you his true emotions
2006-07-27 08:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by tree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he role over and go to sleep after you do the dirty deed? If so, he's not serious.
If he is willing to wait till marriage to do the dirty deed, than he's serious.
2006-07-27 08:56:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋