2006-07-27 01:42:41 · 15 answers · asked by Davidc2 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
you can't change your sexual preference just because your parents don't want you to. I say seek professional counsilling with your parents this may help them understand you.
2006-07-27 01:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by shellkate1244 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not quite sure how other people have managed to answer the question, I can't quite comprehend it!
I will try a little ad-lib (no problem using Latin as English seems to be redundant)
" If I think I am Gay/Bi sexual and my parents don't want me to be, what shall I do?" How's that for a near translation?
Be yourself and get on with the rest of your life, and why do you need to be told this in the first place?
2006-07-27 10:04:18 · answer #2 · answered by Raymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think anyone is truly bisexual, they are just confused. Ultimately, you have to be true to yourself, if you are gay. It is your life, but of course your parents will be upset by this, that is natural, they never imagined this for their child, they love you. Try to remain respectful to them and seek some counseling to deal with the family issues that are sure to come up, it will help all of you. Good luck.
2006-07-27 01:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being gay or bi-sexual. Hopefully at some point and time your mother will understand that.
2006-07-27 01:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by jen52978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it may be, you must follow your heart. You can't THINK you may be bi/gay: deep down inside you know how you feel. Listen to that and not other people unless you want to always live a lie - never a good thing.... there are many things our parents don't want us to be. But are you going to live their life for you, or are you going to live your own life for yourself? Sorry, if this sounds harsh, but its how I see it.......xxx
2006-07-27 01:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by sammi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your parents who have to live your life, it's you, so ultimately it's none of their business. Try to understand where they're coming from but stay true to yourself at the same time. You'll have to let them know at some point, but only you can decide when that will be.
2006-07-27 01:51:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is easy choose not to be Gay. Be a healthy male and date women like God wants you too! Being Gay/ bi is a gross and dirty lifestyle choice.
2006-07-27 04:07:34 · answer #7 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its up 2 you who you like and find attractive.
you are the one who is with them and waht ever else not your parents, they can only govern what you do so much. This one is up 2 u babe xxxxx
go 4 what u what
2006-07-27 01:46:16 · answer #8 · answered by Stephie.B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be true to yourself. All of my friends that came out feared losing friends and family members, but the freedom that they gained was worth it. Brace yourself, people that really love you, will accept you as you REALLY are, not for who they want you to be.
2006-07-27 01:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its ur decision, i mean ya they are ur parents but they can tell u what to like and not like or live ur life for u, i think u should be open and honest and tell them the truth they will love u no matter what
2006-07-28 04:27:30 · answer #10 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋