my sister is only 12 and has guys that are 16 or 17 walking up to her asking for her number she says yes and just go to the next guy she is thick she wears a size 36 b she wwears a 6 in jean and her butt atracts guys how can i help her i dont want her to rush to be grown and we dont live in "the hood" we live in a nice big house so i dont she why she has to act ghetto
2006-07-27 01:23:42 · 19 answers · asked by kierajanee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my dad was killed
2006-07-27 01:28:15 · update #1
im not jealous but i dont want her on the street selling herselfe in her later years
2006-07-27 01:29:25 · update #2
That is a tough position to be put in. Have you tried to talk to her? She may get into more than she is ready for hanging around guys that much older than her. Is there a trusted adult you feel comfortable talking this over with, such as an aunt or family friend? Maybe someone needs to have a talk with her. She could really get herself into a lot of trouble. She may be angry with you for a while for talking to someone else about it, but that is better than her getting hurt. She is still just a child. Good luck, I hope you figure something out to help her.
2006-07-27 01:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by krisaquarius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOH this is a difficult one simply cause even if you tell the guys that she is only 12 a perv is gonna be a perv and lord knows what your sisters does when you are not around have you ever consider that she may already be sexually active think about a normal 12 year old they get bashful around older guys and feel intimidated by guys there own age. She has already had a taste of older guys.
You need sit with you sister and speak to her ask about her sexuality if your are the only person it seems to be in this girls life its best that you know whats going on you might not be able to stop her but you might be able to open her eyes. Explain to her that if a older guy wants to "date" it isn't cause of her mind its cause of her A$$ and if that's the case why they cant find women there own age. Stress to her there are Rapist out there that aren't going to care how old she is or whether she says no or not.
Most important just talk to her be involve. Like Jay said : ONCE A GOOD GIRL'S GONE BAD SHE'S GONE FOREVER.
good luck
2006-07-27 08:58:25 · answer #2 · answered by a_bug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmm jealously...well young lady what does the hood have to do with being ghetto...and what is acting ghetto...you should think about that before saying it that is a very ignorant statement ....so if you lived in the hood and she was asking a question about you would she say you act white...another ignorant statement! There is a better way to describe things this question shows how young you are...best thing is lead by example!
To help her slow down there is nothing you can do obviously she likes the attention and regardless will do what she wants ...sisters never listen till its too late,they always need to experience things to learn.
2006-07-27 08:33:30 · answer #3 · answered by Rain S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are really worried about her. What you need to do is sit her down and have a talk with her about the dangers of dressing and acting so provocative. I'm sure she will fight and argue with you but you just have to stick to your guns. You should involve your parents also. As a Parent of a 12 year old my self, I would never let my daughter dress and act like this.
2006-07-27 08:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by jlayton134 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably loves the new attention. just let her know it is not alright to give out the phone number to every one she meets. she probably likes talking on the phone and will have it tied up for hours, but don't you think it is better she be on the phone than in someones back seat. she should know what is right and wrong by now and if you pester her she may do the wrong thing just to make you jealous...it looks like it is already affecting you. so talk to your parents about it and let them be the parents because you are not.
2006-07-27 08:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by dizzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what part of the world are you in? in australia it's against the law for a person to have sex with a minor .meaning a child under 16. tell the boys that she is only 12. tell every boy that comes along about how she just loves her dolls to play with and emphasise that she is 12
2006-07-27 08:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by clrdanlob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to talk to her and explain what you think the problem is....if you have no luck let your parents know what is going on.
You would hate to see her with an unwanted pregnancy, especially that you may have been able to prevent by guiding her.
She is way too young to be giving out her number to guy and she is underage and considered "Jail bait"
2006-07-27 08:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is really nothing u can do if she wants to she is going to sleep with these guys sooner or later. the best thing to di is warn her about std and pregnancy and the ill effects of starting early sex and ofcourse do not forget about the drugs.
if she still going to do what she wants to do
buy her a carton of codoms just to be on the safe side.
2006-07-27 08:29:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that boys only want one thing,and love hurts really bad,tell her she is young and should be focusing on her own life.Do your parents not know she is giving out her number,My advice take away the phone,then more privledges until she stops.Good luck God bless:O)
2006-07-27 08:30:52 · answer #9 · answered by melissa_froggies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get your sister to dress sencibly and not hoochie
but you also got to under stand that if guys are going to hit on her there goijng to hit on her
and the ghetto thing that is from who she is hanging out with at school or even when ya go tothe mall
2006-07-27 08:39:17 · answer #10 · answered by whosurmamma069 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋