What if your significant other wants to be a stripper?

Question

Could you deal with it? I ask because that almost happened to me.
She got it into her head that she wanted to strip--and because of her looks it could have happened. She decided against doing it in the end, but it got me thinking.
It would be tough to deal with--all those fat, balding gross men leering at her, trying to cop feels... and also, most of the other strippers hitting on her!
I am in no way morally against strip clubs, but I wouldn't be comfortable with my woman stripping. Am I insecure, or something?

Answer 1

No I reckon that it would take a very strong and trusting relationship for the guy to be able to handle this. My hubby was once offered a job as a stripper ( dance troupe!) and he could have earned way more money! I was secure enough to let him give it a go, I have never been a jealous person and I totally trust him, but I do realise that not everyone is like this. I am lucky in that I have never had cause to develop any mistrust of him.

So no I don't think you are particularly insecure at all, I don't reckon that many guys could deal with their woman becoming a stripper, it would be different if she was already stripping when you met of course.

Answer 2

Insecure? probably.Aren't most of us? we all have a certain line we don't want crossed, and your was just defined.I had girlfriends that were strippers.And they all spent a ton of money on me, it was nice. After a while it was kind of cool...all those guys were paying a lot of money to see my girls ****. She would do a lap dance or two, rub there thighs ...they would get all worked up and dump more money. I would never let someone have sex with my women...that's my line not to cross.You can look all you want, you touch anything accept her top and between her legs.If your women loves you, there is nothing to worry about.You should let her do a armature night at a strip club.She doesn't have to strip all the way, only as far as she is comfortable.I wouldn't want to see you lose her because you stopped her from something she wants to try.Did you ever think how sexy that would make her feel? maybe she says she don't want to do it anymore cuz the way it makes you feel.Go to a different town where you don't know anyone and give it a try.Good luck..and remember,..she is with you because she wants to be.

Answer 3

You are not secure at all. You should enjoy the fact that your g/f is sexy enough to strip. Hell sit there and spend a couple hundred on her at a strip club and watch her go home with someone else (you). Some poor fat bastard is out $200.00 and she's out spending it on you!

Answer 4

I would have aproblem with this situation also... I'm not the extreme conservative type, but I like a woman (especially the woman Í am in a relationship with!!) to be a lady.
Stripclubdancer as a profession would not be a part of that..
Guess I'm a litlle bit oldfashioned.. :-)

Answer 5

No, you're not insecure. You are normal and have morals, but I'd keep an eye on that one. Sounds like a problem-woman.

Answer 6

I asked my partner he said he would not like it. He wants me all to himself. greedy isn't he lol . ps Not all the men that go to these venues are gross , balding or old.! there's something else to worry about sorry

Answer 7

nah, i would be the same if i was a guy. maybe she is the one thats insecure and craves the attention?

Answer 8

Don't think so,just in touch with your feeling.But i hope you told her all this.Keep up the good work.

Answer 9

its hard to not be insecure.my gf used to do live cam work....and it still causes a lil tension from time to time.......

Answer 10

we'll you are not insecure, is she your wife? it is normal. =D and maybe it is what she want to do. =D