Many, MANY, times...I've fallin deeply in love with many different people... and I always say to other people 'I've never felt this way before' when really.. all I ever do IS feel that way for everyone... it gets sooo hard sometimes.. cause I end up broken hearted and sometimes I don't think I'll ever REALLY find the one.. if there is one.
2006-07-27 01:03:44 · 20 answers · asked by Chrissy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you should take a step back and really look at yourself. You could be trying to compensate for low self esteem. Love you first. By this I mean that you should be comfortable with the idea that love will come along and that you don't have to push it. Then you'll be free to find a special person to truly love that will love you. Chin up girl, you're special! I hope this helps! Good Luck & Best Wishes!
2006-07-27 01:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
G'day,
Different people control emotions differently. If you wanna keep a guy you like, try not to talk about love for the first few months even if you do, and try to take it easy, guys get scared by emotional girls cause they start to get too serious too soon and when they do get serious its hard to have a good time with them, cause if you let emotions take control of you, you will be sitting there thinking about the future while he is trying to have a laugh. Just loosen up and don't plan ahead, and try to hide your emotions. Hope this helps
Kind regards
Hot_Anthony
2006-07-27 08:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been where your at. One day I realized that it was because I was so insecure about myself, that I thought I needed another's approval for my own self worth. I began to realize that I had qualities to offer. Not saying I got on an ego trip, mind you, because, even after having been married for five years, I still battle with depression and self esteem. But, I did not make the latter dependent upon the acceptance of another.
Best thing I can say to you is be happy with who you are, and just be yourself around others. If they cannot accept you for that, then that's their problem. If a guy comes along who grabs your eye, get interested, but don't go overboard. Take it slowly, and keep your emotions on an even keel, until you realize that both you and he do want to get serious.
But, start having a little more appreciation for yourself! Once you realize the qualities you have, you will want to be more selective about the person you want to share them with for the rest of your life! Best wishes!!
2006-07-27 08:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are probably in love with the idea of being in love. Until you can truly get your emotions under control you will be this way. Don't try so hard to find the one. Just sit back and enjoy your life and when the time is right you will realize you are with that one person that you truly love.
2006-07-27 08:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by HastyBabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truely understand this.
Although, the thing you must do is to be very confident in YOUR SELF. Falling in Love too deeply will scare your love away.
Being in love deeply is fine, just remember that he also has his own life, and you should have yours too by yourself, and have a great hobby or things to do when he isn't around.
This is very important, you must be independant!
Be busy to make yourself not think of him every time.
2006-07-27 08:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me that you don't really respect or love yourself. you might be trying to find self confidence in someone else, meaning you need someone to make you feel good about yourself. love is not so trival that you fall in and out of it so often. thats not real. plus needy females are a definite turn off for a guy. work on you self confidence and maybe things will be different
2006-07-27 08:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by george 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to fall in love with yourself first. find out who you are, and why it's so easy for you to give your heart away. you need to find that sort of passion and compassion for yourself before any relationship will work. you will find that the more desperate you are to be with someone the more likely it is that the relationship won't work. get a strong connection to your "self" by going to a therapy group or individual counseling. good luck!
2006-07-27 08:07:37 · answer #7 · answered by amuse4you 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to stay single for a while and build up your confidence/self-esteem, if sounds like you are always looking for someone to fill a part of you,your to needy/clingy,thats why you always end up with a broken heart.
if i'm wrong,well i guess you havent found the right person yet.dont look for love, love will find you.
2006-07-27 08:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by Daisy d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't wear your heart on your sleeve. Try making sure that he feels the same about you before you start sharing emotions. Have you heard of the song by Teddy Pendergrass that goes ....."Its so good loving somebody when somebody loves you back? I think you'll like it.
2006-07-27 08:08:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really think it is not that you fall in love to easy it is that you fall in love with the wrong men. I fall in love rather easy my self and i like being in love but i have to be careful with the women that i fall in love with.
2006-07-27 08:29:28 · answer #10 · answered by workwithd2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋