2006-07-27 00:54:00 · 13 answers · asked by monaardnas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
met him 4 yrs ago online. He flew here twice the last time was last month for my birthday. And in both visits he didnt take advantage of me at all if you know what i mean
2006-07-27 01:06:30 · update #1
move from one state to another in Australia.... perhaps...
has he even asked you to do so?
What are his reasons for wanting you to move to him rather him to move to you.?
2006-07-27 13:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very hard.
You know him for 4 yrs now, by talking to him in internet.
Why won't you have a month of vacation to the states, and spend with him for a long period of time.
If you are thinking of moving over, I think taking a brake for a month isn't a big issue.
Know his lifestyle in the states, know his friends, maybe his parents, and THAN, ask HIM if he would like to move over to your country. If he says no, but if he really thinks the same way with you, he might ask you to come over to his place for permanent.
Now, I can't really say this WOULD happen, but he will miss you very much if you spend time with him for a month, and nothing after that...!
But don't try to sleep with him that fast, be careful!
2006-07-27 08:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No i woulnot. love needs a solid foundation on which to thrive, you need to know the person better, when the euphoria of a new liasion has worn off and reality dawns on you, you will realise that there is alot more to love then knowing you are in love- issues like compatibility are very important. my suggestion is that you spend more time with this person try to get to know the person a bit better before taking such a drastic step of relocating. what if you move and two weeks later you find that you are just not compatible at all what do you do? take your time.
2006-07-27 08:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by black beauty 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really KNOW you are in love YES! I moved countries & its the best thing i ever did. We are the most together couple i know & we are more in love every day after two years so far & still going strong.
Be careful and be SURE! Take into account what you have to lose if you aren't sure and things go wrong.
2006-07-27 08:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It would be impractical for a lot of reasons. I would be considering important things like my career, my family, my child (in my case. i don't know if u have any.), my living arrangements, and what this guy two states away is feeling. But this is just me and its my opinion. If you think that you can safely, easily and without incident get by all of the above...go for it. Good luck!
2006-07-27 07:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would get to know the person better before doing anything drastic like that..are there any kids involved or anything like that...that would be a question to ask yourself..what if u get there and decide u made a wrong decision..then what would u do?
2006-07-27 07:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by *~Callie~* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were older, yes. At my current age, no. Plus I'd only have to move 1 state, but still. If it's really love, then go for it!
2006-07-27 07:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by wolfgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends, do you really think its worth it to leave your family and friends behind for a realationship that may not work? Its your decision in the end, just make it the right one.
2006-07-27 07:56:58 · answer #8 · answered by Dean f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that this is not the one that treated you as a "useless piece of old carpet " that you were asking about in your last few questions!
2006-07-28 09:50:18 · answer #9 · answered by Selkie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you only met someone twice, I think it's pretty safe to say you cannot be 'in love' with them.
Do not confuse 'loving' someone (or lusting someone, in your case), with being 'in love' with someone.
So the answer is NO!
LOL!
2006-07-27 07:57:36 · answer #10 · answered by crazyotto65 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, because people online are usually different in person.
2006-07-27 07:57:30 · answer #11 · answered by Chelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋