We are not so frank to each other and only discuss regarding the official matter while on work. Both of us are new in this company. She is very serious kind of person. Plz help.
2006-07-27 00:42:23 · 13 answers · asked by Lucky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DEAR WOULD YOU LIKE TO JOIN FOR DINNER TONIGHT? simple come on honey you can do it.
2006-07-27 00:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Cool !!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating someone you work with is bad, bad, bad. Think ahead. If it doesn't work out, how will you manage a working relationship on the job? Many have tried, few succeed. It just causes stress and strain not to mention the added stress and strain if details get out and circulate around the office. It's never a good idea to date someone you work with. She sure doesn't sound like she's giving you signals that she's interested in you either. Why not play it safe and just share a lunch break at work with her to see if she's even interested. Maybe invite her to walk with you on lunch or something. If she accepts, then you might have a better idea. But if it were me...I'd forget it. Seen this too many times. Somebody always winds up having to quit the job to get away from the mess they created.
2006-07-27 00:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best moment to ask for a date is on a staff party, if you have one. Because people are relaxed there. But if have not any parties, just be confident in yourself. You can send flowers with the card with the pruposal(if i is a woman), or go straight to her and ask! Women like confident men!
2006-07-27 00:52:55 · answer #3 · answered by Aljona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out if people from work go out as a group. No need to rush into a one on one thing, this is a new job for you and her, settle into your job and let her settle into hers before you start to complicate the work place.
2006-07-27 00:51:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could ask her if she would like to go get a drink after work, or if neither drinks ask her for some help on a project or assignment and see if anything happens from there. chemistry.
2006-07-27 00:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by kathleen c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her to a cup of coffee when she is tired and start discussing more personal things... or ask her if she wants to go out with u... what do u have to lose??!! if she doesn't want, keep asking... she will eventually accept... with a bit of luck... :)
2006-07-27 01:12:15 · answer #6 · answered by Toaster o' Death 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let till she shows some signs. do not ruin yr future possible friendship in a hurry.
2006-07-27 00:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know the saying - " never dip your pen in the company ink"
2006-07-27 02:34:46 · answer #8 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you are not supposed to date just work together
2006-07-27 00:46:03 · answer #9 · answered by floxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you are both new l think you should concentrate on settling in first and pursue that later
2006-07-27 00:46:36 · answer #10 · answered by Lil mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋