When l'm out and l see a guy l like, l don't really have it in me to go up and talk to him,how do you get the ball rolling?
2006-07-27 00:23:00 · 15 answers · asked by London girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
eye contact, eye contact and eye contact. a little body language goes a long way also. dont put your back to him. stand in a welcoming position (not like that for all your freaks out there). and laugh with whoever you are standing near.
2006-07-27 00:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by itshowmuch 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Simple! Follow these simple rules and you'll have the whole bar eyeballing you!!!
1. Eye contact - dont glare at him like a psycho though!!! Just catch his eye, hold a gaze for a moment and look away. If youlook back a few seconds later and hes still looking your way - hes yours! Chance a quick smile - he should be over to you in a matter of seconds!
2.If you're in a bar wait til your target goes to get a drink - position yourself in behind him and wait a few seconds - then put your hand on the small of his back and push gently, hes gona turn around so say sorry, bout that I got pushed - its really crazy in here tonight - again if he likes what he sees he should offer to let you stand IN FRONT of him, hence protecting you from crowd pushing!
3. Approach him and say, excuse me I hope you dont mind, but I love that shirt/jacket/jeans/shoes you're wearing and its my brothers birthday next week, I know he'd love something similar - do yo mind me asking where you got it?
4. Take off all your clothes and give him a come on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-27 08:36:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get the ball rolling I would push my pride to the side and go up to him and make small talk. Although this may seem assertive and scary, you must realize that we are all humans and relationships, rather minimal or lasting, has to start somewhere. If you really like the guy or find him attractive when you see him don't be shy just go up to him and talk. You never know.... the guy you are eyeing just may be attracted to assertive women.
2006-07-27 07:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people are always apprehensive about making the first move. Believe me though, having someone come up to you and make a complement is always a good thing. This may give the ball a nudge in the right direction. Go for it.
2006-07-27 07:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by ʎǝ1ʇʇnɯ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u flash him ha ha no jk.although that would do it but u just need to smile and wave and hope hes get the signal and approaches u.watching from afrar will do nothing but get u wet.so get the ball rolling by checking him out wavin smiling but if u really want his attetion and u can do it.well look at the beer he drink and by him the next one.thats so kool to have a girl thats kool buy me a beer.good luck
2006-07-27 07:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry what did you say , typical guy not taking notice now what was the questiop, ah yes....Get more confidence Girl, Men will believe me feel more flattered if you come up to him. unless like some guys they assume (unlike i would) its just sex that you want, just be yourself and act on instinct.. then see what happens babe x
2006-07-27 07:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by Spark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show plenty of boob. That will attract him then it's just a matter of some sexy dancing and lots of body language. Don't be afraid to show off ur curves.... Go girl. Good luck
2006-07-27 07:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by toots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a little eye contact... catch his eye, hold it for a moment then look away.... do it again and again... then offer a little smile... hopefully he will approach you....
and if he says I noticed you looking at me... look suprised and say no...there was a clock above your head with a smile.... tease him a little and hopefully he'll be chatting to you for the entire night.
2006-07-27 07:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by Violent and bored 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send some flirty looks and then if he seems interested get some balls and go say hi, nothing to lose either you like eachother and talk are you dont and you continue looking.
2006-07-27 07:29:12 · answer #9 · answered by Daisy d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eye contact and body language and make sure he notices you. Just flirt
2006-07-27 08:22:41 · answer #10 · answered by welsh_darkhorse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋