my bf saw me doing salsa with another guy on 12june n he immediately sent taunting n rude mesgs n that i shud hav sex n remove my clothes with tht guy.I cleared up that he was jus my dance partner n not my lover but he didnt believe. he said he will get all investigation done regarding that guy n if he finds sumthing wrong, he will never contact me.My dance class got over on 18june.Now he hasnt contacted me since 1 month.I kept mesging till 10th july after tht i mesgd him tht i'll forget him coz he doesnt wana talk. even then he didnt reply n doesnt look at me.But when i don look at him,i find he's lookin at me. but since im not mesgin him , he sent 2 mesgs"tht he feels like throwing a stone at my car n slapping me".He seems 2 b extremely angry with me coz of that guy whom he finds better than himself in looks n riches.MY QUESTION IS ..WILL HE CONTACT ME SOMEDAY N REALISE THT I M NOT AT FAULT?HAS HE FORGOTTEN ME OR LIKES ME?PLZ ANSWER ME SOON IM VERY UPSET N I LOVE HIM N DON'T WANT TO LEAVE HIM.WHY IS HE REACTING THIS WAY? WHAT IS HIS PSYCHOLOGY???
2006-07-27 00:15:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let em go if he is jealous.. move on u dont need the stress
2006-07-27 00:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by ~*~ Stormy Weather~*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u prolly put him in a really uncomfortable situation...and yea i think he does care "A LOT" about u if he didn't he wouldn't be reacting this way..love alone makes people see and feel things that aren't necessarily there.. but you should have been smarter common sense should have told u salsa is a very seductive dance how would you have felt(be honest with yourself)if it was him on the dance floor grinding on sum hussy...honestly if he is really hurt he may not come around but i think u need to talk to him explain that u have no interest in this man(i mean really talk to him put it all out there) "prove" THAT YOU HAVE NO INTEREST in him call the dancer guy up while ur man is sittin there let him hear the conversation make sure u express the fact that if this is something that's really bothering him show him your willing to let the other guy go........good luck,,,plz only take my advice if your serious there is a chance you may not be...but in a relationship you have to think before you act....what eva you do ..say to yourself"how would ifeel if hedid this to me o how would it look from the outside"...i kno deep down inside you feel ur not at fault because it was a innocent dance but in your b/f eyes you were disrespectin the relationship think twice b4 u act...if all else fails "holla at the dancer lol"
2006-07-27 00:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by t_williams114 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did no longer bring up her call to get you jealous, i'm particular he did that to teach his element which you would be disenchanted if he deleted a text cloth from her. He did no longer advise to intentionally harm you, he in basic terms had to teach you the way he feels with the aid of you deleting the text cloth. this is undesirable to lead somebody on once you're already in a relationship, you 2 ought to talk it out with the aid of fact hiding the way you sense ought to build upto a much bigger combat
2016-10-08 09:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by bungay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously just for get him and move on. If he is this jealous now it will only get worse. Good thing this did happen so that way you can see the real him. Guys like that are dangerous and the ones that end up physically hurting you.
2006-07-27 00:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a jealous and sad jerk... Move on, and find yourself someone else to enjoy life with...
Change your phone number(s) too... Don't give him a second thought...
If he does slap you or throw anything at your car, contact the police immediately...
2006-07-27 00:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy has some serious issues. Take it from me, a guy, you would be better off with someone else. It's for the best.
2006-07-27 00:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by Keith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't go out with him even if he comes back. If he is like this now what do you think he would be like if you were together.
Find someone you don't have to waist time fighting with over little things like that.
Life is so short!
2006-07-27 00:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by top momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves u thats why he is doin it cuz u like the rich guy who is filled with STD's instead of him
forget the dumb rich guy and go find ur bf an begg him to forgive u
2006-07-27 00:20:37 · answer #8 · answered by personnosrep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is an idiot. Best thing he did was overeact and leave. Move on to someone who is worth a crap.
2006-07-27 00:20:36 · answer #9 · answered by Ted Striker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he still love u.
he doesnt want to lose u.
i think he'll contact u soon!!
he has not forgotten u.. he'll never forget anything bout u..
he is too jealous!! i mean tooooo jealous! i think u should teach him to salsa...
2006-07-27 00:22:51 · answer #10 · answered by izzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN, don't walk from anyone who tells you he feels like slapping you. If you don't some day he will.
2006-07-27 00:20:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋