am not asking you to love me
but am just wondering if there's a chance
2006-07-27 00:04:22 · 25 answers · asked by James 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Beauty is in the eye of the bee holder, but be careful cause if you hold bees you will probably get stung.
Like Elephant Man ugly?
2006-07-27 00:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by martin b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I can. Beauty comes from the inside not from the outside. If you have a beautiful warm and friendly heart and a warm and loving personality this will reflect itself on the outside and show your inner beauty to the world and if there are people who can't see it that is their sadness and shortcoming not yours.
There are so many people nowadays that think that beauty is the key to everything. That we all have to have the perfect body and that we must do everything to keep into shape and try everything to avoid looking old. So they try everything even plastic surgery to try and become successful with others and to boost up their self esteem. It doesn't work that way if you enter that race it will be a race without ending because no matter what outside beauty fades while inner beauty only grows and makes someone more and more beautiful and loved as time passes by.
But what is ugly? You may think that you are ugly because you yourself think it or because others tell you so or give you that feeling but that doesn't mean that you are ugly. To me when a person has a warm and loving heart he or she is beautiful and when you truly love somebody you love and respect the one you love for who he or she is and that is not the outside but that warm and beautiful inside where real beauty comes from.
Good luck and best wishes.
2006-07-27 07:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by aysha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are important maybe for a first impression, but not essential overall or in the long run. If a man is smart, charisma and is a good guy, I don't see any reason for someone else to fall in love with him. I see it happening every day. Only a shallow person will stop at the physical appearence.
2006-07-27 07:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by Yoshi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex-boyfriend wasn't that handsome. My friends didn't like him at all (his out appearance). They were always telling me to dump him because I deserved a handsome and charming guy, and that there was contrast between us.
But I can tell you that even though we are not together (cause he cheated on me), that was the most beautiful relationship I've had. I love him more than myself. In my eyes he was the most charming guy I've seen.
So, beauty is in the eye of the beholder!
OK.
When you are in love the out appearance is the last that matters.
Good luck!
2006-07-27 07:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by atrabel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a girl but I am very sure that true love do not care if you are ugly or hansom, it does not bother whether you are successful or not. any girl who truly loves you, will love you for who you are. My friend beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
2006-07-27 07:15:45 · answer #5 · answered by sankara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends because sometimes,the guy maybe what the girl needs but not what she wants.And sometimes for some reasons,the girl might not even have any feelings for the guy.But hey,if the guy is what the girl need but not what the girl wants,it worth it because overall,a need is stronger than a want.Besides,when 2 are in love,it's because they both need each other not because they wanna possess or be possessed.If I'm the girl,I'd definately choose someone whom I need and who truly loves me.Having these,what more can a girl want in love...(included that's true love)...
2006-07-27 07:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by Zapple™☺ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always love a handsome guy that treats you like sh*t and is a loser. Most women are attracted to the physical attributes of men without regards to his qualities as a human being or lack thereof. Just like men.
2006-07-27 07:09:06 · answer #7 · answered by Billie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody is ugly. there is beauty in everyone and everything. successful or not, if he was a nice down to earth guy, then yes, i would date him and see what happens.
2006-07-27 07:06:57 · answer #8 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you guys love a nice successful but ugly girl?
I dont really consider looks.It is your heart which stays 4evr and not looks.
2006-07-27 07:08:48 · answer #9 · answered by ATHeisT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on!! with this attitude no one will love you!! i don't think anyone is ugly...(not even me:P) and there is someone there 4 you 2... one day you'll find the person who'll see your heart before your body... and that person will love you... so keep searching and don't loose hope... you'll find the right person.. don't worry be happy!!
2006-07-27 08:14:53 · answer #10 · answered by tearsofangels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋