He acted very loving and I thought 3 months was long enough to wait to be sure he cared about me. How long should a woman wait to avoid being used for sex? WHY ARE GUYS SO CRUEL???
2006-07-26 23:37:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow damn that was harsh but a true player to the game. u c guys will do anything to get some sex from a girl who wont give it up.u know i have a friend she says she sleeps with guys the 1st nite i called her a ho and she said no why am i going to date a guy and then i have sex he leaves.so i was true but still easy so ur a ho.so yeah but u saying this makes me see she right somewhat.there is no wait limit a guy can wait a year if he wanted to just plays the part and waits. ur not the only one u know hes banging girl behind ur back and when u give it up ur just another one.im sorry this happened to u. i tell u there are good guys out there dont give up ok.i used to be like him but i met a girl who made me change.so yeah just go out and have fun.hes not worth moping around.most guys just want sex and dont cruel but a game.be careful and please protection always.ur a nice girl dont change ok.good luck
2006-07-26 23:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are just like that. There really is no reason, Most argue that it is encrypted into the male DNA code. I guess it's a "macho" thing to do. But if you ask me, I think it's just plain downright wrong, period.
Don't worry. Your heart will heal in time. Let go of the bad emotions. Talk to your best friend about it. Talking about things makes the pain lessen in most instances.
There is no time period in which you will be guaranteed that you will be "safe". I guess you just have to make sure you and the guy have the same interests. Most importantly, wait until YOU are ready. it doesn't matter what he thinks. It's your body, your feelings, your decision.
Sex for men is different from sex for women, You see, for women, it takes place INSIDE of them. men merely use a projection of themselves. Guess it's the cardinal reason why we men can have sex and not be attached...
2006-07-26 23:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by Owen D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no time limit, guys were born pretenders. Don't put a time on something like that. If you acted out of lust then you got what you wanted, maybe next time you should act of emotions or just make sure you want the same things first. Don't worry it'll pass
2006-07-26 23:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 09:13:36 · answer #4 · answered by bungay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until he gets married to you. I had a girlfriend that was proposed to, had sex and was dumped the next day. At least if you are married you can take him for all he is worth.
2006-07-26 23:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by Lib 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just sounds like the guy you were with was cruel - the real question is why were you attracted to some guy who is so cruel???
2006-07-26 23:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy was a jerk. But now ask yourself when looking back, were there any hints that he was a jerk. Do you meet many of his friends or family, what was your impression of them.
OR were you a dead fish in the sack that left him with no desire to be with you?
Either way try to learn from this experience.
2006-07-26 23:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by mklwis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In a relationship you should know what you are looking for. If you are looking for a long term or life-time relationship it will required patience and that will go with time. Each person will have his or her agenda.....you have own agenda too so don't just give in so easily....
2006-07-26 23:51:51 · answer #8 · answered by Thomas W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you can tell what kind of guy he is by how he treats his friends. If he is respectful and caring with his guy friends then there's a chance he's a great guy. It's hard to get over being used but a new boyfriend always makes it easier!
2006-07-26 23:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by Perils of Paulette 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Nope. Guys are not cruel but cunning. They just see how can they get their purpose. You must also take the fun out of it. Kick him out and search for other one. ;)
2006-07-26 23:41:36 · answer #10 · answered by Akash 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋