What should I do to the person who broke my heart?How should I move on?Should I still be friends with the person who broke my heart so severly?What should I do?HELP!!!!I'm going CRZY because of this!!! =(
2006-07-26 23:27:06 · 13 answers · asked by Zapple™☺ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
AAAAAHHHH! I've got some good news and some bad news for you! this is reality and you need to face every problem now. it's going to be hard and tough. but you need to look the world in the eyes and carry on. woman are the stronger species. To move on, there is no 'quick' help on this one. this is how you deal with this problem yourselves. you need to keep your head busy, it's gonna be soooo hard, but you need to focus, girl. you are not going crazy, it's just a part of your heart which is broken and you can't express it . I'm so sorry about your heart! time will heal and go out and meet many people as possible. you need to find yourself first. but, don't be friends with your ex. as your heart is still broken. and you can't face him. Girl, there is much better and more guys out there. sooner or later you will laugh about this. GOOD LUCK
2006-07-26 23:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by blommekie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 04:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by Breann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry there is not fast way to heal. I don't recommend being friends right away because that can cause more pain that closure. Best bet is to just avoid contact for a while do things for yourself and when things are better and you can accept this person as a peer and not a lover friendship may be possible.
2006-07-26 23:33:49 · answer #3 · answered by wraith1796 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you, I would spend a lot of time AWAY from the person who hurt me so badly.
When I have had some time to think - and to get busy just doing work and house stuff - I would try to think about if there is any possibilty of a friendship still. If there is no possibility, then I would just try to put that person and that relationship behind me... remember it as a mistake that I don't want to make again.
2006-07-26 23:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no quick fix. time will heal this wound. i do not suggest being friends right now. the wound is too fresh and raw and it sounds like you will cling to the hope of rekindling this relationship and set yourself for a big let down if this does not occur. when you have moved on and can be around your ex with a more 'indifferent and benign' manner, then friendship is ok. i know it is difficult to comprehend in the midst of all this pain, but this too, shall pass and you will be able to look back at this with a smile instead of a tear. good luck to you!
2006-07-26 23:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not easy to cure a broken heart you know. But why don't you hang out with your friends more often. That's like the best and the only way I can think of.
2006-07-26 23:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it not easy i know iv been single a week with my brake up but im happy as i could ever be all i did was take the dog for a walk every day for 3 or 4 hours not many ppl have that time to them self but make time you can never have enough time to your self go out with ya friends ( girls ) ( guys are kinda borring to go out with ) lol umm ind something that makes you happy make goals and rember you dont need a man to make you happy be happy with your self and you will see the differ on how much it makes good luck !!
2006-07-26 23:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accepatnce is first. Learn to let go. I'm sure after you have accepted it,you can still be friends. It is his lost..move on. Prove to him that its not the end of the world for you coz when you do..you will be the one defeated. Cry..as much as you can for a day so that when you get tired of it..find something you can do and enjoy. And above all PRAY...PRAY......PRAY. God bless!
2006-07-26 23:31:55 · answer #8 · answered by justurangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write your feelings down. Make a poem or song. Then watch some tv. Don't talk to the person until u feel ready. Watch movies, read books, do anything that'll take you mind off of him. If you do write your feelings down as a poem or song can u send it to me? Anyways, anything that'll make you laugh. Or just deal with it. You'll get over it. That's what I did. Deal with it. You can get over it quickly. I did.
2006-07-26 23:34:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no such thing as speedy recovery...particularly when talking about matters of the heart..be patient..it will soon blow over...
2006-07-26 23:32:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋