he talks about "green" stuff in a casual manner, u know, coz we're quite good friends. but then again, it makes me feel uncomfortable. i try to atleast ride on, and "laugh" at his green jokes, but it makes me feel like he is not respecting me, i mean as a girl atleast.
2006-07-26 23:12:49 · 15 answers · asked by lori 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, the "green" business is confusing me. Maybe I'm just not cool. If you're uncomfortable, stick up for yourself. I had that problem and actually ended up making myself a shirt that said "Still A Girl". Say you feel disrespected. If he comes back and says he does respect you, he's just comfortable blah blah blah. Ask if he respects his parents too and if he'd say that stuff in front of them. He'll get the message.
2006-07-26 23:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with 99% of the answers above. But....
He may just be a IDIOT because he was never taught any manners by his parents.
If you feel uncomfortable, just tell him, and if he's a descent person he will apologize and try not to do it again.
Remember, he is the way he is because of the way he was brought up, and it might be hard for him to change.
I have heard kids of all ages talking to their parents in ways that my Mom or Dad would of slapped me so hard my mouth would be on the side of my head now.
It's just something I would never do
2006-07-26 23:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by space_man_stitch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not mean he thinks you are bad - but if you are not comfortable about it and you are not telling him about it - what is this relationship worth - not much. It sounds like you need to get honest a bit more than you are right now. Why aren't you being honest with this guy? Is it because you know some where he is not the right guy for you?
2006-07-26 23:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all ask yourself-Is ur freind taking u as a freind or a gurl. if he is taking u as a friend, & gives no response to the sex, male or female, then its very natural that he may talk before u all the green stuff that comes in his mind. Relax its very natural....
2006-07-26 23:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by GirlsMania 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we get all horny sometimes & other people are really green minded, it always part of they're daily lives & it's normal for other people but if you're not comfortable with it, tell it to him, besides you're friends, so he'll know & it'll not lead to misunderstanding. so next time you'll have conversation with him, you'll not be uncomfortable & feel disrespected again.
2006-07-26 23:28:13 · answer #5 · answered by babypards 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him how u feel. i myself love it when a girl talks dirty.turns me on and her to. calling me names and all just very erotic and if it gets to spanking and whips and etc well then thats even better. if ur not getting turned on then u need to let him know.no it dont mean ur a ****.means he likes to have fun during sex and that not wrong.good luck
2006-07-26 23:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by SLICK 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont laigh at his jokes, since he will continue, and yes i think he does think you are a bit of a *****, but yet he still is your friend so wont do anything, so my advice is dont laugh at them but dont tell him, if he asks say they arent funny
2006-07-27 01:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by nathan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to grow up,maybe the poor guy has nothing to talk about and is trying to impress you
2006-07-26 23:16:44 · answer #8 · answered by hot_shot--> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel uncomftable and you thing he doesn't respect you have to tell him your feelings so that you might feel better. but yes he thinks *****
2006-07-26 23:18:52 · answer #9 · answered by nataly m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not respectful. You should be treated with respect.
2006-07-26 23:16:27 · answer #10 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋