we've been good friends, and yeah, he knows i used to like him. but that was sooo long ago, someone told me he used to like me too when we were in high school. now, he's flirting, but he tells me he wants to be my best friend. is he just messing up with me?
2006-07-26 23:05:36 · 17 answers · asked by lori 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he think u dont want him still. so yeah i think he does like u and is waiting till u like him and ready to be more.so if he ask u out it might be just friend date but deep inside he likes u.that goes 4 all the ladies if a guy ask u out and ur good friends he likes u.thats the truth belive or not.
2006-07-26 23:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a best friend is a rare commodity. Its also a prerequisite to a long term relationship.
Live the moment, and enjoy the friendship.
Sometimes companionship can be very healthy for two friends who have yet to find their ultimate soul mates. If you wind up enjoying life together and you develop a friendship that is respectful of each other, all the better.
You can also mention to him that you would love to be friends as it would be helpful for you to ask him what type of guys you should be dating. That should get to the bottom of the motivations.
2006-07-27 06:15:37 · answer #2 · answered by besttobefriends 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..it seems he has interest on you but you have to be sure what it is.We can not say instanly he has feeling when he already told you he wants you as bestfriend. You can not just trust anybody (especially if he is flirting). You can go out with him for you also to find out the real score. You will never know unless you try and find out yourself. Maybe after all..he wants you for a serious relationship (we can't just judge him, right?)You also have to be cautious not to fall in love so easily. Yes, have fun and be friends first then if it is meant to be then things will be put on their right places. Hope this helps. God bless!
2006-07-27 06:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by justurangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always. But the possibility. If a guy asks you out he obviously has some sort of attraction to you and asking you out is one way of finding out if things could lead to a relationship. It's kinda like Lego's, or building a house, get a good foundation first and build from there.
2006-07-27 06:09:46 · answer #4 · answered by wraith1796 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's flirting because he does like you, yet he wants to be your best friend to be close to you either way he wants to be close to you. Take a chance and see if he is flirting with you because he likes you or because he feels close to you, the way to do that in my experience is to flirt back and see what happens if it turns out bad you can always say you were sorry and go on with you life being his friend.
2006-07-27 06:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by pat H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-07-27 06:08:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has some interest in you. But that interest could end in bed.. So..he may just be trying to get in your pants. Or, he could be looking for something a little more.
2006-07-27 06:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dnt think if a guy ask you on a date he has a feelings for you, maybe he just want to be with you, and share his thoughts. He says he want to be your bestfiend,. so he only want to be your friend. Sometimes truth hurts alot!!!! Find someone else!!!!
2006-07-27 06:20:06 · answer #8 · answered by lady_blou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think his feeling just might be in his pants.
sounds like you're still in high school to me.
2006-07-27 06:11:05 · answer #9 · answered by Tank Stillton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is not asking for sex on ur first date with him, u may just give him a trier, but id he du ask for sex, that means all his after is what is under ur skirt so be careful girl.
2006-07-27 06:09:52 · answer #10 · answered by Hazee4uall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋