If i found out my boyfriend is on house arrest, drinks, smokes and does weed wut should i do?? Some of my friends say i should stay goin out w/ him and some say that i should break up w/ him....I mean i REALLY like him but he's only 14
2006-07-26 23:02:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's only 14 and he's already in that much trouble? You need to get away from him. NOW!
2006-07-26 23:05:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay well you need to decide if this is the kind of lifestyle you want to be apart of. You may not be into the same things that he is into but ever heard the phrase "Guilt by Association?" People are going to think you are a pothead, juvenile deliquent who also drinks. Also you are too young to put all this unneeded drama on yourself. Find a good boy who lives a clean life and you'll be a lot happier.
2006-07-27 06:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
House arrest, drinks, smokes weed ? :))) And he's 14? Now really, how old are you or something? Never-mind... If you really like, do whatever your heart says, but be care-full beware of the consciences... Words and emotions are chains that binds a human soul... So I say be care-full ;)
2006-07-27 06:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by s3rayah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's only 14 and in that much trouble??! I would say that he really needs to get himself together before he can add anything good to a relationship.
You would be wise to stay away from him until he starts taking more responsibility for his actions. You will only get dragged down.
You cannot change him. He can only change himself. He can't like you at all because he clearly does not like himself!
2006-07-27 06:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by beckini 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you have written it is not possible to give you a comprehensive answer. But if your boyfriend is really leading a life like that then you should try first to tell him clearly your dislike. If it goes on even after that then better to forget him than dragging the relationship to uncertainty.
2006-07-27 06:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by deba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex boyfriends where all like that and you know where those relationships went?NO where! Your friends are telling you to stay with him cuz they think that it's cool that he's on house arrest and somkes bud all day,and it's not. You need someone who is going to be there if you need them not someone who might be locked up when you need them the most...move on and find a good guy.I did and I 'm not writing letters to the hall anymore,but if you thinnk your boyfriend will strighten up then it stick by his side.If he's a gangster then 4get about it he's not gonna change!trust me been there done that!GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-27 06:14:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you want to get going with someone that you can't even go to the movies with? What sort of relationship it that? I wouldn't break up with him, I would just not talk or see him for 7 days and see how you feel then. Oh and hang out with other guys!
2006-07-27 06:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by Lib 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think you like him because you have the need to help him.
there are people who are attracted to others , because the other people need help.
But girl he can only help himself stay friends with him and thats it
and find someone better.. I am sure you are to young to be caught up in this.
2006-07-27 06:10:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is only 14 and already in so much trouble, then it will only get worse. You need to get away from him. He is not someone you need to be with.
2006-07-27 06:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by meb06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Running out is not a solution. don't you think you have to help him to get out of it, at-least give it a try.
Sit with him, talk to him. He is Ur b/f he may listen to you.
Try, may be you can change his life. There is no harm in trying and you always have an alternative of leaving him.
2006-07-27 06:11:32 · answer #10 · answered by Nick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋