...to catch up soon' at the end of the text. Does that mean you got stood up, or that genuinly this person will still plan to meet with you soon?
2006-07-26 22:35:01 · 14 answers · asked by smart_babe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i didnt go somewhere and wait for him, i was expecting a call from him to clarify the time and place
2006-07-26 22:58:23 · update #1
its hard to clarify if you got sttod up or not, However, I wouldnt be bothered making any effort to contact this person again - if they genuinely were unavailable to meet you they'll prove themselves by trying to organise another meeting.
If you dont hear from them - dont bother ringing them you.
2006-07-26 23:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe the disappearing act (not phoning... leave message) is his way of saying:
"Hey, I'm not interested and/or found someone new and because I'm a coward and has been one for long, can't confront anything about my life really, so this is the only way I know to react to life - when I see emotion, I run.
As you can see I'm a bit of a immature man and I think too much of myself and to top this I don't think of others feelings, just mine.
OK, ok.... the real truth is... I'm just a bastard that didn't learn anything about humanity or communication and basically i don't know how to behave in society, so I react like a unicellular being that when faced with a problem runs. Signed Cowardly Yours,
Very Stupid Guy".
2006-07-27 07:15:07 · answer #2 · answered by Mary7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not technically. Imagine waiting at a resturant for an hour or two and then giving up and going home. That's getting stood up.
But the "catch up soon" doesn't seem like he's interested in you romanticly.
Put him in the friend category.
2006-07-26 22:41:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically you have not been stood up.... he just hasn't called to arrange a meeting place yet...
Could be for a number of reasons, ranging from he's busy to he's not interested.....
Don't bug him, if he wants to meet you he will... and if he doesn't well then.... move on.
2006-07-27 00:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by Violent and bored 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think stood up. If they can't be bothered to meet with you for the first time, it def means you aren't top priority...and why would you want to date a guy that doesn't make you priority #1 ?!!
2006-07-26 22:41:06 · answer #5 · answered by Megs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'we'll have to catch up soon' i would say is a poilte brush off, if he was keen he would say sorry about that but lets rearrange when are you free? then again he could just be a tyical bloke trying to play it 'cool'. I wouldnt run after him he sounds a tw*t
2006-07-27 02:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stood up im afraid ;-( but if you dont mind the fact that im 40 get in touch, i wont stand you up ! x
2006-07-27 09:00:46 · answer #7 · answered by charlie c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what his reasons were and as he didn't make a new date i would just say he thinks of you more as a mate.
2006-07-26 22:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by jojitsui 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got stood up. let im get in touch with you, if he wants to he will
2006-07-26 22:57:49 · answer #9 · answered by London girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah forget him if he was realy detained or something he would have called not messaged
2006-07-27 02:32:01 · answer #10 · answered by Imogen228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋